Name Calling

Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day, why is it that if you have a one night stand with someone they consider you a hoe? What that make they stupid ass? This goes both ways! Also make sure to read other questions it got heated.
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Dani Brown at 10:23am June 18
Lol yes it does go both ways... Unfortunately society has a double standard for men vs. Women. :-/


Tatiana Hughey at 10:26am June 18
I AGREE WITH U DANI......


Hanifah Sarl Abioto at 10:28am June 18
well I can't speak from personal experience but I feel that it has much to do with sexism... from a certain point of view of course... EXAMPLE: about a yr ago I started kickin it with this dude... so I went to chill with him and he tells me he has 4 kids (pause right there I said HELLS NO)...one just born the day before... ages...4, TWO 2 yr olds, and the newborn... I said oh you had twins I'm a twin... "No two different baby momma's with them. I had met this chick at the club and fucked her and a couple months later she called and said she was pregnant (pause again... this nigga HAS to have syphillis, AIDS, crabs everything u have a one night stand and no condom EW) but anyway. So he goes on to say "yea that HOE it was between me and this other dude and it ended up being me".... Granted we as women HAVE to take control of our reproductive systems... but WTF? you a hoe... calling her a hoe... I got the bloody hell of out there!


GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 10:31am June 18
i would not consider a male or female a whore unless having one nights stands is something they do on the regular...i know of some (male and female) and they just simply fuck a person cause they want to with no strings attached...it's not my character to do that...i tried a one night stand and it turned into a three year and on going friendship...so you're not a whore if you have a one night stand...just don't have them ALL THE TIME...LOL


Dani Brown at 10:32am June 18
Wow... I'm not even shocked by that Hanifah lol. I know a guy who is 22 with 4 kids/3 BM's


Chelsea Trenise at 10:37am June 18
WOW 4 kids and he calling someone else a whore....EWWWW im at a lost 4 words he know he dead wrong!!


Hanifah Sarl Abioto at 10:38am June 18
girl HELLS NO i was not raised like that... if that is your pattern then that means you have no problems having children by anyone... but then want to say your baby moms is a bitch... nigga please you just didnt do any proper screening... and I agree that if that is how you want to live your sex life then do so... there are many ways to live your sex life and safely... ranging from one person to however many... as long as you arent compromising yourself... and the word whore is so played to me... as many people that have sex and have been having sex.... bc even before our so called "loose" times... 95% of american women had premarital sex 75 years ago... not too much has changed. and men have even been encouraged to have sex so its not some new something


Dani Brown at 10:41am June 18
So true Hanifah, And Chelsea a lot of men would rather put the blame on the woman than man up and admit they F'd up lol.


Brandy Greene at 10:41am June 18
You are both grown and there is no need for the double standard, if a woman gives it up quick then she is labeled as a hoe then the same should apply for a man...


Dani Brown at 10:46am June 18
I agree Brandy. Two consenting adults having sex is just that, regardless of if its night 1 or night 100. However, if having sex on the 1st night makes the woman a hoe... The same goes for the male.


Hanifah Sarl Abioto at 10:47am June 18
i agree. but to be honest i don't think it should be applied to anyone. bc most people who do have frequent unsafe sex practices are self destructive and really dont need anymore labeling or anything to tear them down bc they are doing enough of that themselves. its a false sense of self. bc you have then moved from being a person who defines their sex to someone who lets their sex define them. and letting anything define you is never a good thing... so the word is played


Chelsea Trenise at 10:54am June 18
I couldnt agree more Hanifah, thats is so true. when ur that pitiful and have that many issues to where u go around hurting yourself to get a false sense of love or pretend to have a connection with another human being which is just as disposable as the condom u wore during the conquest is really sad. ppl just need to elvate themselves and grow up, period.