Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day, is it a sin for you to play with yourself to get yours? I hear a lot of people say they are not having sex but do you release? Let's talk fam! We are getting heated now!
July 21 at 9:11am · Comment · LikeUnlike
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Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
i asked someone this SAME question . i said . from a males prospective: most guys do it to reduce the chances of getting "blue balls" and then i said you release when you least expect it . so why not help yourself release .
July 21 at 9:13am · Delete
Chenear Stevenson
Pat, I think it is the same as being intimate with someone. The point is if you are having explicit thoughts while you are getting off then it is just as wrong. The bible talks about how no sin is greater than the other so it's all the same so might as well get yours....LOL
July 21 at 9:13am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Where in the bible did it say don't release? Do you have to think nasty thoughts to bust one?
July 21 at 9:17am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
well yeah it just falls along the lines of lust... now if you dont have to think nasty thoughts to getcha one then i dont think you're going aganist the word.
July 21 at 9:18am · Delete
Darius Knox
if man wanna keep his life energy he wouldnt, since chicken chokin is about the release. its ok for women.
July 21 at 9:20am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
I don't know if it is a sin or not but you have to get through those dry spells somehow...if that is a sin then let me buy my asbestos suit NOW!!!!
July 21 at 9:21am · Delete
Patrick Covington
So you are lusting on yourself to make sure you are healthy? Most men get prostate cancer from what? I build up and then you get infected.. Women are anal ass hell when they got a lot build up.. Are we not human?
July 21 at 9:21am · Delete
Paula Hatton
man I'm readin bible verses on this and it's not looking too good for the home team lolol...best option...get married and get it over with.
July 21 at 9:29am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
where in the Bible is it ? I was just looking for em .
July 21 at 9:29am · Delete
Melissa Williams
For most people, in order for you to release you have to have some type of sexual stimulation whether it is visual or physical and that is what makes it sinful. If you, can bust without the motivation then ur ok but i would like to meet someone that can do that. lol.
July 21 at 9:30am · Delete
Darius Knox
find another book for a second opinion on this
July 21 at 9:30am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
Darius i was thinking the same thing but the last time i told someone to do that , they told me i shouldnt go aganist the Bible . BOY that was a heated conversation .
July 21 at 9:31am · Delete
Melissa Williams
It is in one of the corinthian, I think. I just listened to it on my cds the other day.
July 21 at 9:31am · Delete
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang
playing with yourself is one thing...but stimulating yourself to recieve pleasure and to manifest certain things by opening up your vortex(for women)...its all about the energy you put into it...you could be masturbating but could not be thinking in a sexual manner...most won't understand what i'm saying but point blank ain't shit wrong with it...
July 21 at 9:32am · Delete
Darius Knox
@melissa its not sinful, but its not spiritual
July 21 at 9:32am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Get married to bust a nut and be healthy hmmmm. So what happens when you wife cuts sex off like soo many have and you do yourself is that still a sin.. Just because you married it erase the sin if she not giving it up
July 21 at 9:32am · Delete
Paula Hatton
Leviticus 15:16 lolol too funny.Romans 1:26-27.galations 5:16.
July 21 at 9:33am · Delete
Darius Knox
one can use masturbation as a manifestation tool, like prayer
July 21 at 9:33am · Delete
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang
in my eyes it's not a sin....do what you have to to keep your self on a natural high...
July 21 at 9:34am · Delete
Paula Hatton
Check out Galatians 14-24...Very interesting paragraph...
July 21 at 9:35am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
The Bible does come out and say ." Thou shalt not masturbate" We have to use other verses to justify the topic . and then people go farther into saying, well does this only apply to the people of that time . If you go wait until you married... are you really happy or you just want to bust one ?
July 21 at 9:36am · Delete
Paula Hatton
Yes Patrick it erases the sin if u thinking about your wife lol...Now if u thinking about Buffy or whomever...
July 21 at 9:37am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
(moment of silence for Buffy)
July 21 at 9:38am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
i'm with Chee....
July 21 at 9:38am · Delete
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang
masturbate! masturbate! and you'll feel great! tingle! tingle! tingle! and make your world shake!!!
July 21 at 9:38am · Delete
Paula Hatton
lmao @ Justin! lolol...Well hey it said men release semen roflololol...too tickled.
July 21 at 9:39am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
I KNOW ! You know at times I think there has to be another side to the Bible.... it leaves women out of A LOT OF THINGS !
July 21 at 9:40am · Delete
Melissa Williams
@ darius the act is not sinful but what most people do is think about while they are doing it is sexual in nature, that is the sinful part.
July 21 at 9:40am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
well idk if i can just do the do and not think about something . if thats the case , i'll just wait until i have one of those dreams and BAM
July 21 at 9:41am · Delete
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang
well we all need to examine and get to know our reproductive area and in the process of doing so if you end up liking the feeling while examining i say continue on...hell if you can't please yourself who will??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
July 21 at 9:41am · Delete
Paula Hatton
Ugh I'm gonna have to look @ fb on the computer right quick to see the rest of this topic!!
July 21 at 9:42am · Delete
Patrick Covington
I just need head then and that is that on that!
July 21 at 9:47am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
well to each his on .
July 21 at 9:47am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Why everything always against men? Like the bible is against us. Where were the women at?
July 21 at 9:50am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
THATS WHAT I WANT TO KNOW !I was at Bible Study... having my own little private studyand i was like... WHERE THE WOMEN !Women either got the good light or the bad . Good : Mary...: Jezebel
July 21 at 9:52am · Delete
Paula Hatton
LoL...OOOOOO now ya'll can't take it...ya'll supposed to be the leaders...if the man is weak how can a woman submissive to a weak man?
July 21 at 9:52am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
oh i didnt say i couldnt take it ! i just dont want yall to be left out . seeing as if so many women say they independent and dont need a man .
July 21 at 9:53am · Delete
Paula Hatton
Oh nooooo....I think ya'll misunderstand that independent thing. It means: we don't need to use a man to get ahead or have our needs taken care of. We don't need a man to take care of our financial needs only. We need a man that can be the complete package or we don't need ya'll at all...THAT is what it means to be independent!
July 21 at 9:56am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
right....i like how we went from one topic to another one .lol
July 21 at 9:56am · Delete
Paula Hatton
okayy...think this topic is squashed....People will continue to "bash Mr's head open and think about heaven later." lolol!!
July 21 at 9:58am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
OMG ! lmao where do people get these titles from LOL I have never heard that one Darius got me when he said chicken chokin.
July 21 at 9:59am · Delete
Melissa Williams
I agree with Paula, I never say I dont need a man. I just dont need the garbage I been coming across.
July 21 at 10:02am · Delete
Patrick Covington
I will just take head lol... Next topic coming NOW!!
July 21 at 10:04am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
thats a sin too ! next topic lol
July 21 at 10:05am · Delete
Saara Lee Abioto
I'm going to have to concur with Ms.Chee. Even if you are going to wait (intercourse) for marriage, which many choose not to do no matter how many Bible verses they read, then it's important to get to know your own body. I believe that if the energy is open and positive then finding pleasure in everything from food, masturbation, life, etc is a normal thing and something that should be encouraged. Esp. for women b/c for so long we have been taught, directly and indirectly, that our bodies are not our own and certainly not for our own pleasure. And not even speaking on a spiritual plane, just medically even, if you don't know yourself how are you going to know when things are awry or when sensations from other people are not the correct ones. Not to mention to withhold psychologically many people begin to have blocks up about their bodies so that when it comes time to have actual sexual intercourse, they can't or not comfortably or effectively.
July 21 at 10:07am · Delete
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang
thank you saara...hit the nail right on the head....*finally exits conversation*
July 21 at 10:16am · Delete
Thomas Crown
it's yours if you can't play with it who can!!lol
July 21 at 10:20am · Delete
Felesia Shaw
patrick you a trip:) lol!
July 21 at 1:22pm · Delete
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
The Good
Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day, is it true the good people always come in last? Why do the people who fight for what is right always get burned in the end? Let's talk fam! Warm Up Question!
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Brandy Greene
Im trying to figure that out, I always come in last...this should be interesting....
July 21 at 8:07am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
I find it to be true....I don't know why it is like that.Just like you can be at work,and the lazy mofos that are always late,stealing, and being totally unproductive get away with MURDER 24/7 and not a word is said to them...ever...but the people that hold down their departments and make their bosses look good get dogged out by them and get fired at the drop of a hat.I try to do all the right 'ish and I never get as far as others that shortcut and backstab.I guess it is just the way of the universe.I'm not changing though...I'm just gonna buy some new kicks and run harder and push people out of my way...I'm tired of being in the back staring at asses...well some ofthem,anyway.
July 21 at 8:19am · Delete
Carmen Renee
i agree with Brandy but I keep doing what I do.
July 21 at 8:25am · Delete
Vicskeyas Faith Moore
I find this to be true, in careers, relationships, in life. People take kindness for weakness.
July 21 at 8:26am · Delete
Brandy Greene
I concur on that Carmen, I keep right on ticking.....
July 21 at 8:26am · Delete
Collis Parham
brah u aint lying and i aint got a clue,but i do know 1 thing,im quite parched and my feet r fuckin' aching me...but im determined not 2 quit
July 21 at 8:29am · Delete
Patrick Covington
I guess people know you are not going any place so they feel hey I can treat this person like this and that and they going to be there...
July 21 at 8:34am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
haven't commented in a while... but man. this is so true. We invest so much time trying to do whats right that we are just over looked in the act of it all . We will be rewarded for our actions in the end so...
July 21 at 8:41am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
@ Justin...the end...as in Heaven???This isn't The Color Purple and I ain't Miss Celie...I want my rewards now...TODAY...while I am alive and on this planet...lol.
July 21 at 8:57am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
i wasnt talking about that end idiot . lol
July 21 at 8:58am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
idiot???...well what end are you referring to???ALWAYS coming in last...as in ALL THE TIME...when is this magical "end" that we always hear about that we are going to get our come uppance???...i'm just sayin'.SPECIFY please...for us idiots out here...lol.
July 21 at 9:03am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Shit I am slow on that.. It aint no end for me... I will take mines
July 21 at 9:04am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
oh shut up ! in the end ... when God see's fit .I DONT KNOW when your end is but my end is whenever God blesses me with it . BETTER ?
July 21 at 9:05am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
lol come guys work with me here !
July 21 at 9:06am · Delete
Patrick Covington
You best make it clear because I am getting ready to start taking mines from hear on out! you come with some shit I am going to give you some shit.. We have to stop laying down letting ppl walk over us.
July 21 at 9:09am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
yeah its still kinda early for me . thats as clear as its gonna get so... take yours from here on out by all means .
July 21 at 9:10am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Next question posted intresting!
July 21 at 9:12am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
God can help me but I too am taking what I want and deserve TODAY....
July 21 at 9:13am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
comment posted . and yes it is interesting
July 21 at 9:14am · Delete
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Brandy Greene
Im trying to figure that out, I always come in last...this should be interesting....
July 21 at 8:07am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
I find it to be true....I don't know why it is like that.Just like you can be at work,and the lazy mofos that are always late,stealing, and being totally unproductive get away with MURDER 24/7 and not a word is said to them...ever...but the people that hold down their departments and make their bosses look good get dogged out by them and get fired at the drop of a hat.I try to do all the right 'ish and I never get as far as others that shortcut and backstab.I guess it is just the way of the universe.I'm not changing though...I'm just gonna buy some new kicks and run harder and push people out of my way...I'm tired of being in the back staring at asses...well some ofthem,anyway.
July 21 at 8:19am · Delete
Carmen Renee
i agree with Brandy but I keep doing what I do.
July 21 at 8:25am · Delete
Vicskeyas Faith Moore
I find this to be true, in careers, relationships, in life. People take kindness for weakness.
July 21 at 8:26am · Delete
Brandy Greene
I concur on that Carmen, I keep right on ticking.....
July 21 at 8:26am · Delete
Collis Parham
brah u aint lying and i aint got a clue,but i do know 1 thing,im quite parched and my feet r fuckin' aching me...but im determined not 2 quit
July 21 at 8:29am · Delete
Patrick Covington
I guess people know you are not going any place so they feel hey I can treat this person like this and that and they going to be there...
July 21 at 8:34am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
haven't commented in a while... but man. this is so true. We invest so much time trying to do whats right that we are just over looked in the act of it all . We will be rewarded for our actions in the end so...
July 21 at 8:41am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
@ Justin...the end...as in Heaven???This isn't The Color Purple and I ain't Miss Celie...I want my rewards now...TODAY...while I am alive and on this planet...lol.
July 21 at 8:57am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
i wasnt talking about that end idiot . lol
July 21 at 8:58am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
idiot???...well what end are you referring to???ALWAYS coming in last...as in ALL THE TIME...when is this magical "end" that we always hear about that we are going to get our come uppance???...i'm just sayin'.SPECIFY please...for us idiots out here...lol.
July 21 at 9:03am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Shit I am slow on that.. It aint no end for me... I will take mines
July 21 at 9:04am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
oh shut up ! in the end ... when God see's fit .I DONT KNOW when your end is but my end is whenever God blesses me with it . BETTER ?
July 21 at 9:05am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
lol come guys work with me here !
July 21 at 9:06am · Delete
Patrick Covington
You best make it clear because I am getting ready to start taking mines from hear on out! you come with some shit I am going to give you some shit.. We have to stop laying down letting ppl walk over us.
July 21 at 9:09am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
yeah its still kinda early for me . thats as clear as its gonna get so... take yours from here on out by all means .
July 21 at 9:10am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Next question posted intresting!
July 21 at 9:12am · Delete
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project
God can help me but I too am taking what I want and deserve TODAY....
July 21 at 9:13am · Delete
Justin 'Eclectic' Nelson
comment posted . and yes it is interesting
July 21 at 9:14am · Delete
The Other Person
Patrick Covington it is crazy Friday!! Today we are going to have fun to make the day go by... Get ready to laugh don't get fired and please don't blame me if you do... Here we go.. Why is it different for a man to invite another woman into the bedroom but a woman can't invite another man into the bedroom? UGH LET'S TALK FAMILY...
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter
We are afraid that the other man maybe a half inch longer and hit a spot that we haven't. And no man wants to see another man wear out the cookie that we thinks is ours. And we might be afraid that he may touch us or we touch him. No straight man wants Mr Marcus's member swinging in our face while we are trying to do it.
July 24 at 8:09am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Jason DAMN FOOL
July 24 at 8:10am · Delete
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter
And we don't want no woman being as big as a freak as we are. We want the really freaky ones to bring the whips and hand cuffs but leave afterwards. We know you had someone else but don't suck him in front of us.
July 24 at 8:12am · Delete
Candice Grose
Even if a guy told me that was ok with him, I would question his sexuality. That's just to gross for me AND a turn off if two naked (male body parts) were that close to one another. Makes my stomach turn thinking about it.
July 24 at 8:14am · Delete
Lenita Fisher
I have to agree with Jason on this one. As a women, we know about that male ego and how to cater to it.
July 24 at 8:16am · Delete
Collis Parham
hell invite the shit out of me,i wont look@u any differently
July 24 at 8:17am · Delete
Kim Claxton
LMAO @ Collis!!!!!!
July 24 at 8:20am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Well if it is the next man woman he going to have problems lol! I almost threw up but I don't want a man making a mistake touching my ass! or my balls that is just a little too much for my soul.
July 24 at 8:24am · Delete
Nikia West
OMG!
July 24 at 8:25am · Delete
Kim Claxton
go one at a time or do the front/back thing.....then you wont have to worry about all that
July 24 at 8:27am · Delete
Patrick Covington
She going to leave his ass lol..
July 24 at 8:31am · Delete
Patrick Covington
CovingtonGetting ready to move on! Don't invite me because I am going to lock u in the bathroom and make his knock lol...
July 24 at 8:46am · Delete
Collis Parham
hell i read the ? wrong,cancel my invitation im enough 4 any woman
July 24 at 8:47am · Delete
Patrick Covington
@brah get it together lol
July 24 at 8:49am · Delete
Collis Parham
lol my fault lol
July 24 at 9:04am · Delete
Miss Rowland
SOME MEN MIGHT GET OFFENDED...
July 24 at 6:05pm · Delete
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter
We are afraid that the other man maybe a half inch longer and hit a spot that we haven't. And no man wants to see another man wear out the cookie that we thinks is ours. And we might be afraid that he may touch us or we touch him. No straight man wants Mr Marcus's member swinging in our face while we are trying to do it.
July 24 at 8:09am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Jason DAMN FOOL
July 24 at 8:10am · Delete
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter
And we don't want no woman being as big as a freak as we are. We want the really freaky ones to bring the whips and hand cuffs but leave afterwards. We know you had someone else but don't suck him in front of us.
July 24 at 8:12am · Delete
Candice Grose
Even if a guy told me that was ok with him, I would question his sexuality. That's just to gross for me AND a turn off if two naked (male body parts) were that close to one another. Makes my stomach turn thinking about it.
July 24 at 8:14am · Delete
Lenita Fisher
I have to agree with Jason on this one. As a women, we know about that male ego and how to cater to it.
July 24 at 8:16am · Delete
Collis Parham
hell invite the shit out of me,i wont look@u any differently
July 24 at 8:17am · Delete
Kim Claxton
LMAO @ Collis!!!!!!
July 24 at 8:20am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Well if it is the next man woman he going to have problems lol! I almost threw up but I don't want a man making a mistake touching my ass! or my balls that is just a little too much for my soul.
July 24 at 8:24am · Delete
Nikia West
OMG!
July 24 at 8:25am · Delete
Kim Claxton
go one at a time or do the front/back thing.....then you wont have to worry about all that
July 24 at 8:27am · Delete
Patrick Covington
She going to leave his ass lol..
July 24 at 8:31am · Delete
Patrick Covington
CovingtonGetting ready to move on! Don't invite me because I am going to lock u in the bathroom and make his knock lol...
July 24 at 8:46am · Delete
Collis Parham
hell i read the ? wrong,cancel my invitation im enough 4 any woman
July 24 at 8:47am · Delete
Patrick Covington
@brah get it together lol
July 24 at 8:49am · Delete
Collis Parham
lol my fault lol
July 24 at 9:04am · Delete
Miss Rowland
SOME MEN MIGHT GET OFFENDED...
July 24 at 6:05pm · Delete
Bra
Remove
Patrick Covington it is crazy Friday!! DON'T GET FIRED! Why do women put their money in their bra they be having coins and cellphones and more.. I seen a chick with an A cup with her money in it, like you can't even fill the cup how you holding money! Don't you all sweat? I am waiting for someone to break out with a mint lol. LET'S HAVE FUN!!
Carmen Renee
OMG NO AND U KNOW I AM A TRIPLE D.. LOL SOME STUFF JUST DONT NEED TO DO WHEN UR A MEMNER OF THE ITTY BITTY TITTY CLUB!! MY granny said hers was a treasure chest a theif can rob up there! Yes we sweat!!
July 24 at 10:14am · Delete
Rochell Jones
I need to kno myself Pat. that's y I steralize my hands everytime I touch a dollar bill,no tellin who gstring its been n
July 24 at 10:21am · Delete
Tye Jett
dude i was wondering why they put money in there i think some put coins in there to
July 24 at 10:22am · Delete
Danielle M. Hayes
Thats ur top secret place. The more u got the more u can hide up there. Man. When i am out. Cellphone, id,money, lipgloss, it all goes there. they are like a walking wallet. Yes we sweat but most people dont care when it comes to money.
July 24 at 10:26am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Marlon Verner bro u not lieing i seen a women bring a blunt an some weed out of her bra one time an the blunt was in good shape an everything i guess when u siting between two pillow u cant break easy.
July 24 at 10:28am · Delete
Patrick Covington
@Danielle thank for making it so visual lol.
July 24 at 10:28am · Delete
Britney QueenofRok Powers
my goodness....buti must ADMIT im a duble d....i only stick my id and my visa on the side of one of the girls on a moment where a purse isnt an option, but a cell phone in the bra!? CUM ON! GET A CLIP OR AHOLSTER SOMETHING! THATS NOT FAIR TO THAT PHONE! lol
July 24 at 10:47am · Delete
Ursula BrownDoll Brooks-Chatman
LMAO , well sorryyy I'm guilty of that too .Me.. liek when I work out.. I like to have my cell phone as close as possible lol. Becayse.. sometimes in the parks you can't put your purse in the trunk, people love to pop trunks nowadays, so I'll stick my license in my bra and my keys too and keep on going, lol. Just carrying a pouch or something seems like extra weight
July 24 at 11:00am · Delete
Patrick Covington
While you work out OH MY.. You all going to have water damage to your things.
July 24 at 11:07am · Delete
Ursula BrownDoll Brooks-Chatman
LOLL
July 24 at 11:12am · Delete
Patrick Covington
next thing you know you all will be pulling your toys out!
July 24 at 11:16am · Delete
Paula Hatton
It's just a temporary place for me. Like when I'm gonna need it in a few seconds. I hate when women pull their money out of their bra's to pay. That shit is nasty. Take the shit out before u get to the register.UGH!!!
July 24 at 12:17pm · Delete
LaToya Pinky Hicks
Im a proud member of the itty bitty titty committee lol dont hate lol
July 24 at 12:42pm · Delete
Patrick Covington it is crazy Friday!! DON'T GET FIRED! Why do women put their money in their bra they be having coins and cellphones and more.. I seen a chick with an A cup with her money in it, like you can't even fill the cup how you holding money! Don't you all sweat? I am waiting for someone to break out with a mint lol. LET'S HAVE FUN!!
Carmen Renee
OMG NO AND U KNOW I AM A TRIPLE D.. LOL SOME STUFF JUST DONT NEED TO DO WHEN UR A MEMNER OF THE ITTY BITTY TITTY CLUB!! MY granny said hers was a treasure chest a theif can rob up there! Yes we sweat!!
July 24 at 10:14am · Delete
Rochell Jones
I need to kno myself Pat. that's y I steralize my hands everytime I touch a dollar bill,no tellin who gstring its been n
July 24 at 10:21am · Delete
Tye Jett
dude i was wondering why they put money in there i think some put coins in there to
July 24 at 10:22am · Delete
Danielle M. Hayes
Thats ur top secret place. The more u got the more u can hide up there. Man. When i am out. Cellphone, id,money, lipgloss, it all goes there. they are like a walking wallet. Yes we sweat but most people dont care when it comes to money.
July 24 at 10:26am · Delete
Patrick Covington
Marlon Verner bro u not lieing i seen a women bring a blunt an some weed out of her bra one time an the blunt was in good shape an everything i guess when u siting between two pillow u cant break easy.
July 24 at 10:28am · Delete
Patrick Covington
@Danielle thank for making it so visual lol.
July 24 at 10:28am · Delete
Britney QueenofRok Powers
my goodness....buti must ADMIT im a duble d....i only stick my id and my visa on the side of one of the girls on a moment where a purse isnt an option, but a cell phone in the bra!? CUM ON! GET A CLIP OR AHOLSTER SOMETHING! THATS NOT FAIR TO THAT PHONE! lol
July 24 at 10:47am · Delete
Ursula BrownDoll Brooks-Chatman
LMAO , well sorryyy I'm guilty of that too .Me.. liek when I work out.. I like to have my cell phone as close as possible lol. Becayse.. sometimes in the parks you can't put your purse in the trunk, people love to pop trunks nowadays, so I'll stick my license in my bra and my keys too and keep on going, lol. Just carrying a pouch or something seems like extra weight
July 24 at 11:00am · Delete
Patrick Covington
While you work out OH MY.. You all going to have water damage to your things.
July 24 at 11:07am · Delete
Ursula BrownDoll Brooks-Chatman
LOLL
July 24 at 11:12am · Delete
Patrick Covington
next thing you know you all will be pulling your toys out!
July 24 at 11:16am · Delete
Paula Hatton
It's just a temporary place for me. Like when I'm gonna need it in a few seconds. I hate when women pull their money out of their bra's to pay. That shit is nasty. Take the shit out before u get to the register.UGH!!!
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LaToya Pinky Hicks
Im a proud member of the itty bitty titty committee lol dont hate lol
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Monday, July 13, 2009
Question for Men
Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day, MEN what is it that you don't understand about women? I think I have enough women on my list that can help you answer. Let's talk fam..
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Terrell E. Jones at 10:16am July 13
Why don't women love sex like they love money?
Jessica Davis at 10:19am July 13
Thats a lie i love both of them just the same lol!
Patrick Covington at 10:19am July 13
Why do women have to keep their past present?
Chiquita Spears at 10:21am July 13
@Terrell we love them both but with sex it's gotta be the bomb...@Pat some women dont know how to let go and then you cant deal with a woman who has recently broken up with a guy she needs time...
Tia Canada at 10:21am July 13
ok
Cynthia Perkins at 10:21am July 13
I agree with Jessica... Well Terrell, my opinion is that money is more of a necessity than sex. True enough you need both but money, you need that to survive a little more than sex.
Karissa Campbell at 10:22am July 13
Money ranks up there with oxygen. it's not everything, but try living life abundantly without having any. Sex is disposable. Most woman can get sex on an as needed basis!
Terrell E. Jones at 10:23am July 13
(Mental note to self... Add Jessica as friend!!!)Why is a man's kindness mistaken for a weakness?
Kevin Hale at 10:24am July 13
they love them both! Its just that it makes more sense to persue money when they broke and sex when they ain't broke (we still couldn't be broke though)
Chiquita Spears at 10:24am July 13
@Terrell that depends on what type of woman you dealing with...
Terrell E. Jones at 10:27am July 13
@All: So that is why when you find a man with money you try to hold on to them? That was a question that was asked to me on a date this weekend and I told her they are the same... She said Money because money makes you have better sex. I said that you can pay for sex and get paid for it so they both are the same to me....
Terrell E. Jones at 10:29am July 13
Kevin you said it... When they broke they want that paper and when they are rich they want that good sex... How many women can agree with that?
Terrell E. Jones at 10:30am July 13
I have a real question: What do you desire most in a relationship?
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 10:30am July 13
i think a woman's past makes her who she is presently , if she has gone through certain situations if she sees a similar situation coming up she will approach it with more caution and suspicion, at least thats how i am
Kevin Hale at 10:31am July 13
Why do most women lie so damn much? Usually starts with them lying to themselves!
Paula Hatton at 10:31am July 13
@Terrell...women love sex differently than men, but we love money the way ya'll love sex! A woman gets a longer internal gratification from shopping!!! The shopping, the anticipation of wearing or using what they bought, how they feel when they wear or use what they've bought...Do u know how long that lasts vs...that orgasm? lol
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 10:32am July 13
Ok, we love sex..... well I know I do, @ Pat, I am sure you have heard of Let It Go by Erykah Badu, women are emotional by nature and can't seem to let go of what previous cats have done to them, but this isn't all women. And Terrel who have you been messing with Lol.... not every woman mistake kindness for weakness
Chiquita Spears at 10:34am July 13
@Terrell personally I desire affection then great sex and money is tied for #2 spot...
Kevin Hale at 10:35am July 13
Why do women that don't fully understand men ask men for their honesty?
Paula Hatton at 10:36am July 13
@ Patrick men hold things just as long as women. They just show it differently...Men take their pain out on every woman following the one that broke their hearts until they realize what they're doing ain't right...Women want the next man to take the pain away...Comfort them, reassure them they are nothing like the last person.
Chiquita Spears at 10:37am July 13
@Kevin I dont think we will ever understand men but I would respect you a whole lot more with you being honest believe me I can handle it...because Ima be totally honest in return
Terrell E. Jones at 10:37am July 13
@Paula How long does it last? Because on Hump day it goes off with me!!!@Vickseyas I have been messing with the boardroom chicks who I have realized that they take their work into the relationships. Now I have decided to talk to a different type of women who know what questions to ask and focus on intimate moments with each other...
Patrick Covington at 10:38am July 13
Damn you all slow down! Hell I can't catch up.. Have legit questions please.. All women don't lie just a female that thinks you are stupid lies
Timothy Dorsey at 10:39am July 13
Why do women try to mold guys into who they want them to be instead of allow that guy to be themselves? If he is not at the point where you need him to be, keep it pushing.
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 10:39am July 13
@ Kevin, what is so hard about the truth
Patrick Covington at 10:40am July 13
@ All what is more important your exs friendship or your now relationship?
Kateia Carter at 10:40am July 13
@ Terrell..maaaaan u sure have a lot of questions!..lol..#1 I love them both #2 to answer a question with a question" why do men always say that..half the time the stuff you do are things that should be done anyway #3 its not about finding a man with money..its finding a man with his shit together..there aren't many out there like that anymore@ Pat..its not about keeping the past present..for me its about remembering the stove is hot and not touching it again..no one wants to keep getting burned so you remember the signs and keep them in mind so it won't happen again..
Paula Hatton at 10:40am July 13
I agree with Chiquita on the last one...We ask, a lot of men just tell us what they think we want to hear...
Chiquita Spears at 10:41am July 13
@Tim damn u hit the nail on the head with that one...But what we are going to have to start doing is determing what we will and will not deal with because you are not going to find all the qualities that you are looking for in one person...
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 10:42am July 13
@ Tim but then you would say, we are not giving a brotha a chance.
Timothy Dorsey at 10:45am July 13
Thanks Chiquita. Ms. Moore, I would rather you turn me down instead of slowly telling I was not good enough for you so let me show you.
Kevin Hale at 10:48am July 13
@ vicskeyas... The truth is the easiest thing to say! Also the easiest to remember!!! There have been moments in my life when women attacked my truth for all of the wrong reasons! Most men aren't going to sugar coat how they truely feel so that it sounds all sweet... sometimes its just comes out raw and uncut @patrick... you sure know what to say! That's exactly why once a woman or anyone else starts lying I'm pretty much done!
Kevin Hale at 10:50am July 13
@ patrick... it would definitely be your current relationship!
Schlundra Moore at 10:51am July 13
@Pat....Your Now realationship should be most important but when it's not. That person is still in the past because they never let it go.
Ashli Clanton at 10:51am July 13
This question has a 2 part answer, In som cases there are women who aren't sex crazy, and don't require it everyday all day throught out the day, they want it when they want it, and when they don't they don't. However Money makes the world go round, and is a requirement in order to survive. Even homeless people need money, which is why you see them on the street corners begging.
Schlundra Moore at 11:03am July 13
@Pat I can speak for me when the Sex is great I can't get enough. But real life sex does nothing for your everyday life, however money does. Now women who keep their past present, this is because the past was never the past, it is still present. Present in their mind, heart and actions. Just beause we have started say, a new realationship, until we are done that so call old past realationship to you, is still our present. It is not until we say it's the past in our mind, heart and actions we still deal with it everyday. The sad part we lie to ourselves and you ( the new person) because we don't know how to let go!
Patrick Covington at 11:04am July 13
TO ALL THE LADIES WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP
Chiquita Spears at 11:08am July 13
Affection
Ashli Clanton at 11:09am July 13
The past repeats itself, but as women we should try to move on but not forget, because history is known for repeating itself and now we are more cautious of the warning signs.When it comes to me, I like to know about the past of the guy I'm dealing with, I like to know what happened in the relationship that made it go bad, and also what happned in the relationship that was sucessful (as much as it pains my ears...LOL). But by me knowing that, I can judge first off is this a person I can put up with and also where to draw the line, before things get way out fo control.
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 11:09am July 13
I don't understand why women say they like, want,and appreciate certain things in MEN but act numb when you give it to them or go and fall for the TOTAL opposite things in someone else....
FOR THE LADIES TO ANSWER
Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day, LADIES what is it that you don't understand about men? I think I have enough men on my list that can help you answer and if they are too afraid I surely will tell you the truth. Let's talk fam..
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Chiquita Spears at 9:13am July 13
why is it that when men get what they ask for (time, sex. etc..) it's still not enough?
Cynthia Perkins at 9:13am July 13
Why is it that MEN always pass up the intelligent classy women and go and get some trashy maggot ass hoe that aint got nothing going for herself?
Tia Canada at 9:15am July 13
WHY DO MEN ASK FOR COMPLETE HONESTY FROM A WOMAN BUT WILL NOT OR JUST WONT GIVE THE SAME IN RETURN?
AlexsSandra Monique at 9:15am July 13
Why do men like to hang with their friends more than they girl.
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 9:16am July 13
No fear here brotha (now BACK to the LADIES)
Ashli Clanton at 9:20am July 13
Why is it that men have a hard time communicating what they want out of a relationship and also what @cynthia said, why do they pass up an intelligent attractive woman wiht goals and a good career or possible career if she is still in school for the trailer part trash type of girl?
Tamika Culp-Gales at 9:21am July 13
Why do men risk their reationships, family, and health by going out and cheating? Do they really think that its worth the risk?
Patrick Covington at 9:22am July 13
@Chiquita Because most men don't know what they want because they have not found themselves@Cynthia you don't have to be locked down with a HOE you can treat a hoe anyway you like but you treat a real woman with respect and most men aint ready because they don't respect who they are.@Tia men play mind games to control a woman with tell me all and I tell you nothing! communication is key and most don't have it.@AlexsSandra Because they don't value you what they have or they are bored with you or you don't share same interest.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:22am July 13
I feel like shoutin up in hea at all these good questions being asked! PREACH sistas! Ashli I am dying to hear what the brothas have to say!
Qiana Nichol H at 9:22am July 13
Why do some men ISH where they eat? I'll explain if needed
Candice Grose at 9:23am July 13
Better yet, 2 piggy back off of Cynthia, why are men intimidated by a young single woman, who has her own, no children, not gold digging, in executive positions? I've had a guy 2 tell me all of that is too much 4 him & he couldn't date me, and to me, that's not a good rerason
Qiana Nichol H at 9:27am July 13
Please answer AlexsSandra Monique, I have that question too
Cynthia Perkins at 9:27am July 13
Piggy backin off of Candice... They go and get the ones with seven kids and eight baby daddys! No job no nothin...
Patrick Covington at 9:27am July 13
@To all that ask question about passing a good woman up.. A lot of men don't know who they are so they can't know who you are! It is much easy to fuck a dirty hoe and you don't have to be locked down.. But a real Woman going to have standards that need to be met! Most men are still boys and have not reached a level of saying I know what I want out of life and I am willing to be with one to achieve that.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:28am July 13
Pat you need to school these men out here seriously.
Patrick Covington at 9:29am July 13
@Qiana simple answer some men are like pigs they love slop. Most like complex shit and get in messed up situation and then have to lie out of it
Timothy Dorsey at 9:29am July 13
Candice, we don't come by women like you often. That is change for most men. Change is new and most do not accept change. He just didn't understand how to deal with you.
Timothy Dorsey at 9:30am July 13
Cynthia. PC doesn't need to teach them. A man has to find himself.
Patrick Covington at 9:32am July 13
@ TO ALL ASKED ABOUT WHY THEY HANG... Because you are boring your interest don't match and they are not ready to value what they have.. When I found a good woman I cut off shit hanging out soo much so I knew my woman knew I valued her!
Terrell E. Jones at 9:33am July 13
I am baaack...@Chaquita Don't give him everything and make him want more. Me being the man that I am only thing I want from a woman is honesty. If she can be completly honest with me it is okay.@Cynthia They are boys not men... See what they have going for themselves and that is what they are usually attracted to @ Tia Make sure the honesty is a two way street. You cannot get what you do not give...@Alex They are gay!!!Need more? Will answer other questions soon!!!!
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:34am July 13
what i dont understand is , how you can date someone for years (2-3) and everything is cool, we have an arguement from time to time but who doesn't? then all of a sudden you say your just not ready for a realtionship? but you don't want us to go too far? you keep us around and then seem to get a lil jealous once you see someone else is intrested? obviously I'm talking about myself...hehehehe
Patrick Covington at 9:35am July 13
@Tim a lot of men don't understand what is right from wrong and it take us real men to tell them that is some foul shit!! If my boy got a woman and I don't I will tell him dude you need to roll to the house to take care of your lady or the next dude will! So it is out job to help men who don't understand what they got..
Candice Grose at 9:35am July 13
@ Pat, lmaol " "they love slop" Thank you for your response Pat & Timothy...they actually makes sense...yall write a book 2gether
Qiana Nichol H at 9:35am July 13
(click) LIKE @ Terrell !!
Patrick Covington at 9:38am July 13
@Chassity Ohsopretty Acey THAT IS CALLED I NEED TO DO WHAT I WANT BUT I WANT YOU TO STAY PUT... EITHER YOU GIVE ME YOUR ALL OR YOU GIVE ME NONE... I WOULD BE ALL IN THE NEXT PERSON FACE TO MAKE YOUR ASS MAD AND SHOW YOU I WILL BE OK WITHOUT YOUR MF ASS. SO PICK ME OR THE STREET.... REAL TALK..
Terrell E. Jones at 9:40am July 13
@Tamika Men do not realize what they have until they have been through a little counseling... Church/Therapist/Momma... When they catch something one time or the fear of catching something will slow them down completely!!! That is what caught me up... I thought I had another kid on the way and I stopped for a while because CS for 1 is enough!!!.Men who attempt to get the girl with all the problems are not really men they are looking for someone to take care of them when it is convient for them... I have one child and will have to seriously think about dating women with 2 or more but we would have to be great friends first because I do not like to be introduced to children if I am not going to be in thier lives.
Schlundra Moore at 9:40am July 13
Why do men talk at you or just make statements instead of talking to you?
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:41am July 13
exactly what i thought, sounds better coming from a man though
Timothy Dorsey at 9:43am July 13
PC, I feel you on that. My circle of guy friends are ones who are faithful to their families. I strive not to associate with others that are not willing to step up and do what is right. I would let them know what is up. I was coming from the terms of a boy that claims to be a man.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:43am July 13
Ok I have another one. Me and several other friends of mine were talking about long distance relationships. I brought up my ex that lives in Puerto Rico. He had to migrate back because his granny had taken sick. This was some years back. Well how about somebody who happens to be a guy went back and told my dude? BUT get this...The guy that told my dude that mess always looks out for me and everything! He is really nice! Just like a big brother to me. Now me and my dude are not speaking because of this and old boy is now walking around here like he hasnt done anything wrong? So why in the hell would he do something like this? I really want a mans opinion on this.
Patrick Covington at 9:43am July 13
@Schlundra men have always been told to be a man and enforcer and a lot men didn't have real men in their house who taught them have to talk and we take the street talk into our homes. So we can't effectively communicate at times.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:46am July 13
Timothy D. i feel ya on that cuz he is damn near 30 , stilll clubs, hangs out wit his guys more than me and everything. Im just kinda fed up, wit the ish. i really liked him though loved him really :(
Timothy Dorsey at 9:47am July 13
Ms. Moore, men that talk like that could have hidden agendas.
Patrick Covington at 9:47am July 13
@Cynthia that is called a case of a bitch!! I dude that is afraid to say hey I am attractive to you I would love to date you but I am a coward! that is what I said last week about watching your friends because they will destroy you.
Patrick Covington at 9:49am July 13
@Chassity you might be setting yourself up for failure..
Terrell E. Jones at 9:50am July 13
@Schlundra Because some men realize that you will take the BS... Stop taking all the crap that they send out and stand firm on your decisions.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:50am July 13
I guess i just didnt want to think i wasted my time but obviously i did. oh well, Thanx yall
Timothy Dorsey at 9:51am July 13
Chassity, the question you should ask yourself, "Is he really interested in me?" No way a man should leave a woman behind that he really likes or loves. Going out with the guys now and then is cool but running the streets is not cool. Even if you are single.
Candice Grose at 9:52am July 13
I GOT A NEW ONE: WHY DO MEAN CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND WITH SUM1 WHO WILL DO WHAT HIS WIFE OR GIRL WONT DO IN BED? WHY NOT JUST ASK THEM OR TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE IN BED? WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR YOU TO APPROACH THE PERSON YOUR CREEPIN WITH ON WHAT YOU LIKE BUT ARE A COWARD WHN IT COMES TO YOUR OLE LADY? I ALWAYS HERE GUYS SAY, "SHE DOESN'T DO THIS OR THAT." WTF ARE YOU TELLING ME 4? TELL HER! REQUEST IT, PUT IT IN WRITING HELL!
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 9:53am July 13
Wow....at the questions posted above, all that I can say is that it is indeed a maturity level and indeed an issue of indidviduals TRULY knowing what they want for themselves and from their mates.I can't believe some of the people that we/y'all are comin' across out here.I am not sayin' that I am SUPER NEGRO or anything,but I feel confident that I am not at the level of some ao the brothas that the sistas are encountering.Obviously there are a bunch of little boys running around in their daddy's suit and shoes(oversized)pretending to be men...ladies are not exempt however.I know MANY that are still playing dress up as well.
Patrick Covington at 9:53am July 13
@Chassity now that is our thoughts you have to decide on what is best for you and your future lol.. Don't have your man running up talking about man you told her to leave me.. His ass going to be in for a shock lol
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 9:53am July 13
Why is it so easy for men to mistreat a good woman but when she leaves, he realizes he screwed up and wants her back
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:53am July 13
I have asked him that, but of course he said no, but that has also crossed my mind, but when i distance myself he either calls and calls and calls, or pops up at my house, whats up wit that?
Terrell E. Jones at 9:54am July 13
@Cynthia That is a big case of Bitch Azzness!!! You need to whoop his ass ASAP!!! I still say you should not have did what you did but if that was your dude (just like one of your girls) he should not have said a word.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:57am July 13
lol@ Pat, understood, but the things yall telling me has ran through my mind before so its about time for me to make a very firm decision
Patrick Covington at 9:58am July 13
@Vicsk, ChassityTHAT IS CALLED I NEED TO DO WHAT I WANT BUT I WANT YOU TO STAY PUT... @Candice men are afraid to teach they ole woman things.. If the oral aint right I will say hey let me show you how I need it done.. then men want to do new stuff but afraid to ask or if she say no they still want to explore... I blame both parties if she just say no
Terrell E. Jones at 10:02am July 13
@Candice I start out telling girls what I want and be completely honest before we have sex. So what you are saying is that you do not have a sex conversation before you have sex? You do not ask about STD's, HIV, or anything that will matter to you as in positions and stuff like that?
Patrick Covington at 10:05am July 13
@terrell this is what guys bring to her I think.. I am not messing with a married chick to teach her new tricks to take home to the hubby lol myself.
Terrell E. Jones at 10:05am July 13
I have asked a lot of questions and have had a female tell me that she does not give oral but like to have it done to her... Needless to say that was out last date becuase I told her "I do not want it everyday but I would like to have it at least once a week" She said no and not even for her husband!!! I told her, that is the reason why you are 35 and still looking for a man...
Patrick Covington at 10:13am July 13
Gentlemen, what are some of the characteristics women portray that are intimidating to men? FROM A FB PPL
Cynthia Perkins at 10:14am July 13
Pat & Terrell - You both are so right! I mean it hurts me that dude did this to me! I call him my big brother and everything! Like I said, he is always looking out for me and everything!Yes I should not have brought up my ex in the conversation but damn! He ain't have to go back and tell my dude! Now he is walking around here like he hasn't done anything wrong! You know part of me still wants to confront him and get it out in the open but I have been strongly advised to keep my mouth shut, let it go, kill him with kindness and let his conscience eat away at him. Damn, it feels weird to have a dude hating on me and I am a woman!Pat - Elaborate on your comment. I have never had this happen to me!
Patrick Covington at 10:22am July 13
@Cynthia at times we have to watch who we call our friends because everyone is not on your side they on your back riding and looking for a chance to tear you apart. You have to be careful in life..
Cynthia Perkins at 10:24am July 13
Well I am definitely going to do just that Pat. Mofos want to see you fly off the handle!
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:44am July 13
Why would a man be with a woman for 8 years, she gives him a little girl and then a year and half goes by, and he marries his mistress of 4 years? While he was living with the girl that gave him his first daughter.
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:45am July 13
He didn't marry her while they were living together but he married the mistress is my point!
Patrick Covington at 10:47am July 13
@Deneka he kept her locked down and knew he had that and was making plans on the other end all the time. When a man knows he got it he can move around.. Have you ever caught him cheating or doing wrong in the 4yrs they were dating?
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:52am July 13
I knew he was doing cuz he told me everything. I met the mistress on several occasions. I always thought it was kind of dirty because he didn't tell his girlfriend the truth from the get go. And now she is all messed up. I feel pretty bad for her.
Patrick Covington at 11:00am July 13
Well if she saw signs it was then her job to walk away.. But we at times hope a person will change for the better and at times it gets worse.
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Chiquita Spears at 9:13am July 13
why is it that when men get what they ask for (time, sex. etc..) it's still not enough?
Cynthia Perkins at 9:13am July 13
Why is it that MEN always pass up the intelligent classy women and go and get some trashy maggot ass hoe that aint got nothing going for herself?
Tia Canada at 9:15am July 13
WHY DO MEN ASK FOR COMPLETE HONESTY FROM A WOMAN BUT WILL NOT OR JUST WONT GIVE THE SAME IN RETURN?
AlexsSandra Monique at 9:15am July 13
Why do men like to hang with their friends more than they girl.
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 9:16am July 13
No fear here brotha (now BACK to the LADIES)
Ashli Clanton at 9:20am July 13
Why is it that men have a hard time communicating what they want out of a relationship and also what @cynthia said, why do they pass up an intelligent attractive woman wiht goals and a good career or possible career if she is still in school for the trailer part trash type of girl?
Tamika Culp-Gales at 9:21am July 13
Why do men risk their reationships, family, and health by going out and cheating? Do they really think that its worth the risk?
Patrick Covington at 9:22am July 13
@Chiquita Because most men don't know what they want because they have not found themselves@Cynthia you don't have to be locked down with a HOE you can treat a hoe anyway you like but you treat a real woman with respect and most men aint ready because they don't respect who they are.@Tia men play mind games to control a woman with tell me all and I tell you nothing! communication is key and most don't have it.@AlexsSandra Because they don't value you what they have or they are bored with you or you don't share same interest.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:22am July 13
I feel like shoutin up in hea at all these good questions being asked! PREACH sistas! Ashli I am dying to hear what the brothas have to say!
Qiana Nichol H at 9:22am July 13
Why do some men ISH where they eat? I'll explain if needed
Candice Grose at 9:23am July 13
Better yet, 2 piggy back off of Cynthia, why are men intimidated by a young single woman, who has her own, no children, not gold digging, in executive positions? I've had a guy 2 tell me all of that is too much 4 him & he couldn't date me, and to me, that's not a good rerason
Qiana Nichol H at 9:27am July 13
Please answer AlexsSandra Monique, I have that question too
Cynthia Perkins at 9:27am July 13
Piggy backin off of Candice... They go and get the ones with seven kids and eight baby daddys! No job no nothin...
Patrick Covington at 9:27am July 13
@To all that ask question about passing a good woman up.. A lot of men don't know who they are so they can't know who you are! It is much easy to fuck a dirty hoe and you don't have to be locked down.. But a real Woman going to have standards that need to be met! Most men are still boys and have not reached a level of saying I know what I want out of life and I am willing to be with one to achieve that.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:28am July 13
Pat you need to school these men out here seriously.
Patrick Covington at 9:29am July 13
@Qiana simple answer some men are like pigs they love slop. Most like complex shit and get in messed up situation and then have to lie out of it
Timothy Dorsey at 9:29am July 13
Candice, we don't come by women like you often. That is change for most men. Change is new and most do not accept change. He just didn't understand how to deal with you.
Timothy Dorsey at 9:30am July 13
Cynthia. PC doesn't need to teach them. A man has to find himself.
Patrick Covington at 9:32am July 13
@ TO ALL ASKED ABOUT WHY THEY HANG... Because you are boring your interest don't match and they are not ready to value what they have.. When I found a good woman I cut off shit hanging out soo much so I knew my woman knew I valued her!
Terrell E. Jones at 9:33am July 13
I am baaack...@Chaquita Don't give him everything and make him want more. Me being the man that I am only thing I want from a woman is honesty. If she can be completly honest with me it is okay.@Cynthia They are boys not men... See what they have going for themselves and that is what they are usually attracted to @ Tia Make sure the honesty is a two way street. You cannot get what you do not give...@Alex They are gay!!!Need more? Will answer other questions soon!!!!
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:34am July 13
what i dont understand is , how you can date someone for years (2-3) and everything is cool, we have an arguement from time to time but who doesn't? then all of a sudden you say your just not ready for a realtionship? but you don't want us to go too far? you keep us around and then seem to get a lil jealous once you see someone else is intrested? obviously I'm talking about myself...hehehehe
Patrick Covington at 9:35am July 13
@Tim a lot of men don't understand what is right from wrong and it take us real men to tell them that is some foul shit!! If my boy got a woman and I don't I will tell him dude you need to roll to the house to take care of your lady or the next dude will! So it is out job to help men who don't understand what they got..
Candice Grose at 9:35am July 13
@ Pat, lmaol " "they love slop" Thank you for your response Pat & Timothy...they actually makes sense...yall write a book 2gether
Qiana Nichol H at 9:35am July 13
(click) LIKE @ Terrell !!
Patrick Covington at 9:38am July 13
@Chassity Ohsopretty Acey THAT IS CALLED I NEED TO DO WHAT I WANT BUT I WANT YOU TO STAY PUT... EITHER YOU GIVE ME YOUR ALL OR YOU GIVE ME NONE... I WOULD BE ALL IN THE NEXT PERSON FACE TO MAKE YOUR ASS MAD AND SHOW YOU I WILL BE OK WITHOUT YOUR MF ASS. SO PICK ME OR THE STREET.... REAL TALK..
Terrell E. Jones at 9:40am July 13
@Tamika Men do not realize what they have until they have been through a little counseling... Church/Therapist/Momma... When they catch something one time or the fear of catching something will slow them down completely!!! That is what caught me up... I thought I had another kid on the way and I stopped for a while because CS for 1 is enough!!!.Men who attempt to get the girl with all the problems are not really men they are looking for someone to take care of them when it is convient for them... I have one child and will have to seriously think about dating women with 2 or more but we would have to be great friends first because I do not like to be introduced to children if I am not going to be in thier lives.
Schlundra Moore at 9:40am July 13
Why do men talk at you or just make statements instead of talking to you?
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:41am July 13
exactly what i thought, sounds better coming from a man though
Timothy Dorsey at 9:43am July 13
PC, I feel you on that. My circle of guy friends are ones who are faithful to their families. I strive not to associate with others that are not willing to step up and do what is right. I would let them know what is up. I was coming from the terms of a boy that claims to be a man.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:43am July 13
Ok I have another one. Me and several other friends of mine were talking about long distance relationships. I brought up my ex that lives in Puerto Rico. He had to migrate back because his granny had taken sick. This was some years back. Well how about somebody who happens to be a guy went back and told my dude? BUT get this...The guy that told my dude that mess always looks out for me and everything! He is really nice! Just like a big brother to me. Now me and my dude are not speaking because of this and old boy is now walking around here like he hasnt done anything wrong? So why in the hell would he do something like this? I really want a mans opinion on this.
Patrick Covington at 9:43am July 13
@Schlundra men have always been told to be a man and enforcer and a lot men didn't have real men in their house who taught them have to talk and we take the street talk into our homes. So we can't effectively communicate at times.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:46am July 13
Timothy D. i feel ya on that cuz he is damn near 30 , stilll clubs, hangs out wit his guys more than me and everything. Im just kinda fed up, wit the ish. i really liked him though loved him really :(
Timothy Dorsey at 9:47am July 13
Ms. Moore, men that talk like that could have hidden agendas.
Patrick Covington at 9:47am July 13
@Cynthia that is called a case of a bitch!! I dude that is afraid to say hey I am attractive to you I would love to date you but I am a coward! that is what I said last week about watching your friends because they will destroy you.
Patrick Covington at 9:49am July 13
@Chassity you might be setting yourself up for failure..
Terrell E. Jones at 9:50am July 13
@Schlundra Because some men realize that you will take the BS... Stop taking all the crap that they send out and stand firm on your decisions.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:50am July 13
I guess i just didnt want to think i wasted my time but obviously i did. oh well, Thanx yall
Timothy Dorsey at 9:51am July 13
Chassity, the question you should ask yourself, "Is he really interested in me?" No way a man should leave a woman behind that he really likes or loves. Going out with the guys now and then is cool but running the streets is not cool. Even if you are single.
Candice Grose at 9:52am July 13
I GOT A NEW ONE: WHY DO MEAN CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND WITH SUM1 WHO WILL DO WHAT HIS WIFE OR GIRL WONT DO IN BED? WHY NOT JUST ASK THEM OR TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE IN BED? WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR YOU TO APPROACH THE PERSON YOUR CREEPIN WITH ON WHAT YOU LIKE BUT ARE A COWARD WHN IT COMES TO YOUR OLE LADY? I ALWAYS HERE GUYS SAY, "SHE DOESN'T DO THIS OR THAT." WTF ARE YOU TELLING ME 4? TELL HER! REQUEST IT, PUT IT IN WRITING HELL!
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 9:53am July 13
Wow....at the questions posted above, all that I can say is that it is indeed a maturity level and indeed an issue of indidviduals TRULY knowing what they want for themselves and from their mates.I can't believe some of the people that we/y'all are comin' across out here.I am not sayin' that I am SUPER NEGRO or anything,but I feel confident that I am not at the level of some ao the brothas that the sistas are encountering.Obviously there are a bunch of little boys running around in their daddy's suit and shoes(oversized)pretending to be men...ladies are not exempt however.I know MANY that are still playing dress up as well.
Patrick Covington at 9:53am July 13
@Chassity now that is our thoughts you have to decide on what is best for you and your future lol.. Don't have your man running up talking about man you told her to leave me.. His ass going to be in for a shock lol
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 9:53am July 13
Why is it so easy for men to mistreat a good woman but when she leaves, he realizes he screwed up and wants her back
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:53am July 13
I have asked him that, but of course he said no, but that has also crossed my mind, but when i distance myself he either calls and calls and calls, or pops up at my house, whats up wit that?
Terrell E. Jones at 9:54am July 13
@Cynthia That is a big case of Bitch Azzness!!! You need to whoop his ass ASAP!!! I still say you should not have did what you did but if that was your dude (just like one of your girls) he should not have said a word.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:57am July 13
lol@ Pat, understood, but the things yall telling me has ran through my mind before so its about time for me to make a very firm decision
Patrick Covington at 9:58am July 13
@Vicsk, ChassityTHAT IS CALLED I NEED TO DO WHAT I WANT BUT I WANT YOU TO STAY PUT... @Candice men are afraid to teach they ole woman things.. If the oral aint right I will say hey let me show you how I need it done.. then men want to do new stuff but afraid to ask or if she say no they still want to explore... I blame both parties if she just say no
Terrell E. Jones at 10:02am July 13
@Candice I start out telling girls what I want and be completely honest before we have sex. So what you are saying is that you do not have a sex conversation before you have sex? You do not ask about STD's, HIV, or anything that will matter to you as in positions and stuff like that?
Patrick Covington at 10:05am July 13
@terrell this is what guys bring to her I think.. I am not messing with a married chick to teach her new tricks to take home to the hubby lol myself.
Terrell E. Jones at 10:05am July 13
I have asked a lot of questions and have had a female tell me that she does not give oral but like to have it done to her... Needless to say that was out last date becuase I told her "I do not want it everyday but I would like to have it at least once a week" She said no and not even for her husband!!! I told her, that is the reason why you are 35 and still looking for a man...
Patrick Covington at 10:13am July 13
Gentlemen, what are some of the characteristics women portray that are intimidating to men? FROM A FB PPL
Cynthia Perkins at 10:14am July 13
Pat & Terrell - You both are so right! I mean it hurts me that dude did this to me! I call him my big brother and everything! Like I said, he is always looking out for me and everything!Yes I should not have brought up my ex in the conversation but damn! He ain't have to go back and tell my dude! Now he is walking around here like he hasn't done anything wrong! You know part of me still wants to confront him and get it out in the open but I have been strongly advised to keep my mouth shut, let it go, kill him with kindness and let his conscience eat away at him. Damn, it feels weird to have a dude hating on me and I am a woman!Pat - Elaborate on your comment. I have never had this happen to me!
Patrick Covington at 10:22am July 13
@Cynthia at times we have to watch who we call our friends because everyone is not on your side they on your back riding and looking for a chance to tear you apart. You have to be careful in life..
Cynthia Perkins at 10:24am July 13
Well I am definitely going to do just that Pat. Mofos want to see you fly off the handle!
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:44am July 13
Why would a man be with a woman for 8 years, she gives him a little girl and then a year and half goes by, and he marries his mistress of 4 years? While he was living with the girl that gave him his first daughter.
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:45am July 13
He didn't marry her while they were living together but he married the mistress is my point!
Patrick Covington at 10:47am July 13
@Deneka he kept her locked down and knew he had that and was making plans on the other end all the time. When a man knows he got it he can move around.. Have you ever caught him cheating or doing wrong in the 4yrs they were dating?
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:52am July 13
I knew he was doing cuz he told me everything. I met the mistress on several occasions. I always thought it was kind of dirty because he didn't tell his girlfriend the truth from the get go. And now she is all messed up. I feel pretty bad for her.
Patrick Covington at 11:00am July 13
Well if she saw signs it was then her job to walk away.. But we at times hope a person will change for the better and at times it gets worse.
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