Patrick Covington is asking do you think certain Rap music is destroying our kids? Making them reach for things that are not there?
Corlis Sweets Armmer at 11:53am May 27
Yes, I do believe that there are certain types of rap music that are destroying the minds of kids. I wouldn't say that it is making them reach for something invisble because there is a way to make these lyrics come to reality in the hands of the wrong person. That is why it is up to us to talk to not only children openly about what is right and wrong in rap , but to also inform our friends on how to keep a strong mind and know that it is only meant to be enjoyed through vivid desription and not re-LIVED. There is a boundary
Crystyle Princessasia Clark at 12:52pm May 27
IF YOU LET YOUR KIDS LISTEN TO THOSE KIND OF LYRICS AT A YOUNGER AGE....IT WILL DESTROY THEM BUT THEY HAVE TO MAKE A LIVING FOR THEY FAMILY JUST LIKE WE ALL DO WITH THE DIFFERENT JOB TITLES WE HAVE ...NO DIFFERENCE. AS I GOT OLDER I LISTEN TO SOUL, GOSPEL, R&B I WASNT RAISE ON RAP....THATS WHY I DONT LISTEN TO IT....SO IT WILL DESTROY IF YOU DO IT...
Jessica E. Lofton at 2:40pm May 27
rap music isnt destroying our kids. the fact that parents aren't teaching their kids how to interpret and handle the content of rap music is the biggest problem. we are raising children with weak minds, which makes it easier for them to be influenced by what they listen to. rap music isnt always meant to be taken seriously, sumtimes its just for entertainment (just like movies, etc.)
Friday, May 29, 2009
When Loves A Part
Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day.. When someone tells you they love you after 1 week what goes through your mind after they just met you? How you proceed from that point?
Ramon Martin at 8:22am May 28
CAUTIOUSLY....VERY CAUTIOUSLY....
Richie Domino at 8:32am May 28
What is Love?
Koesha Magnificent Cook at 8:34am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
I be thinking "Bullshit" & I get turned off & not interested. Dats a sign of the man having Stalker Potential, game, or just CRAZY LOL
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 8:35am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
uhhhh Psycho
Richie Domino at 8:38am May 28
So what's the time frame on saying "I Love you?" At what point do you know you love someone?
Patrick Covington at 8:41am May 28
You tell me what love is and how you define it.
Richie Domino at 8:44am May 28
IDK Pat. I think it is different things to different people.
Adrianne Owens at 8:47am May 28
Only one person can determine what love is to them.other people can't say what someone else feels in their heart...you just continue to take it slow and let each other actually figure out if that is what they are really feeling....it may be stalker material or it may be true love depending on what that person has been through in their lives...that is always an individual decision......I'm pretty sure after a week or so, you will know if it is a stalker or real.
Patrick Covington at 8:50am May 28
well lets find out on the next question that is what I am going to ask
Kris Williams at 9:09am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
DO NOT PROCEED......DO NOT PASS GO.....DO NOT COLLECT ANY MORE INFO....sayin i love u that soon simply means that person mayb unstable,an emotional wreck, or a codependent type wit alot of loose wires.....
Nina Holley at 9:14am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
You need to RUN. Lol. They're crazy and obsessed. Nobody ever told me they loved me in 1 week(7 days), but if they did I'd RUN.
Brooke Mullenix at 9:23am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
hell naww they gotta b crazy
Dakarai F Ellis at 9:23am May 28
do they love me or the things they think or know i can do (sexually)
Patrick Covington at 9:27am May 28
OH MY
Patrick Covington at 9:28am May 28
You get some good Head and be like I love you lol.. Is that how it works?
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 9:44am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
ok. . . that's lust not love
Diana Mama'sGurl Smith at 9:52am May 28
Ummmmmmm, Uh Oh time ta GO!! They're either tryna run game or they don't know wht love is and just sayin ish, probly to get sum
Dakarai F Ellis at 9:55am May 28
i wish someone would explain the difference between lust and love because most men and women don't truly get it
Patrick Covington at 10:14am May 28
Dakarai that is next hour! Lust vs Love look for it. Lets see what ppl think
Patrick Covington at 10:19am May 28
Question posted family... Lets talk about this
Dominique Latrice Brown at 6:25pm May 28
i tell em dueces...somthing ain't right with them mentally or emotionally and i refuse to be on the 10 o'clock news. that person needs help or needs to be evaluated. There is no way you can be in love with a person within a week. Love is unconditional...it takes women more than a week to have that kind of love for their unborn when thry first find out they're pregnant.... and what you telling me you love me after sex and a few home home cooked meals...i don't think so. u love what i do you but you don't love me.
Ramon Martin at 8:22am May 28
CAUTIOUSLY....VERY CAUTIOUSLY....
Richie Domino at 8:32am May 28
What is Love?
Koesha Magnificent Cook at 8:34am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
I be thinking "Bullshit" & I get turned off & not interested. Dats a sign of the man having Stalker Potential, game, or just CRAZY LOL
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 8:35am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
uhhhh Psycho
Richie Domino at 8:38am May 28
So what's the time frame on saying "I Love you?" At what point do you know you love someone?
Patrick Covington at 8:41am May 28
You tell me what love is and how you define it.
Richie Domino at 8:44am May 28
IDK Pat. I think it is different things to different people.
Adrianne Owens at 8:47am May 28
Only one person can determine what love is to them.other people can't say what someone else feels in their heart...you just continue to take it slow and let each other actually figure out if that is what they are really feeling....it may be stalker material or it may be true love depending on what that person has been through in their lives...that is always an individual decision......I'm pretty sure after a week or so, you will know if it is a stalker or real.
Patrick Covington at 8:50am May 28
well lets find out on the next question that is what I am going to ask
Kris Williams at 9:09am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
DO NOT PROCEED......DO NOT PASS GO.....DO NOT COLLECT ANY MORE INFO....sayin i love u that soon simply means that person mayb unstable,an emotional wreck, or a codependent type wit alot of loose wires.....
Nina Holley at 9:14am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
You need to RUN. Lol. They're crazy and obsessed. Nobody ever told me they loved me in 1 week(7 days), but if they did I'd RUN.
Brooke Mullenix at 9:23am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
hell naww they gotta b crazy
Dakarai F Ellis at 9:23am May 28
do they love me or the things they think or know i can do (sexually)
Patrick Covington at 9:27am May 28
OH MY
Patrick Covington at 9:28am May 28
You get some good Head and be like I love you lol.. Is that how it works?
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 9:44am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
ok. . . that's lust not love
Diana Mama'sGurl Smith at 9:52am May 28
Ummmmmmm, Uh Oh time ta GO!! They're either tryna run game or they don't know wht love is and just sayin ish, probly to get sum
Dakarai F Ellis at 9:55am May 28
i wish someone would explain the difference between lust and love because most men and women don't truly get it
Patrick Covington at 10:14am May 28
Dakarai that is next hour! Lust vs Love look for it. Lets see what ppl think
Patrick Covington at 10:19am May 28
Question posted family... Lets talk about this
Dominique Latrice Brown at 6:25pm May 28
i tell em dueces...somthing ain't right with them mentally or emotionally and i refuse to be on the 10 o'clock news. that person needs help or needs to be evaluated. There is no way you can be in love with a person within a week. Love is unconditional...it takes women more than a week to have that kind of love for their unborn when thry first find out they're pregnant.... and what you telling me you love me after sex and a few home home cooked meals...i don't think so. u love what i do you but you don't love me.
Love and Lust
Patrick Covington We had to change the question up!!! What is the difference between Love and Lust? Men and Women we looking for answers the world want to know!!!!!
Nikia West at 10:23am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
When I saw his face his chest his smile I fell in lust but when he let me into his mind told me about his upbringing I fell in love. Time is the difference!
Kenyada R Townsel at 10:27am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
Trust isn't needed in lust, if you love someone u have to trust them! If it's just lust it won't matter to you.
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 10:28am May 28
with love you can deal with the daily BS and talk and work it out. with lust you leave at the drop of a hat.
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 10:32am May 28
love surpasses sex. lust is only sexual or satisfies a need. love has all you want, need and desire if you can surrender to it. love is God who has it all for you if you stay the course, and lust is the Devil who only can give you immediate gratification.
Adrianne Owens at 10:41am May 28
Nikia and Jason said it just right..Beautiful answers!
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 11:38am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
When you can't stop thinking about what is in between that person's legs. . . that's lust, if you can't stop thinking about the individual, that's love. You gain love once you have gotten to know a person, been in that's world, gained a certain level of respect for that person.
Nikia West at 10:23am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
When I saw his face his chest his smile I fell in lust but when he let me into his mind told me about his upbringing I fell in love. Time is the difference!
Kenyada R Townsel at 10:27am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
Trust isn't needed in lust, if you love someone u have to trust them! If it's just lust it won't matter to you.
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 10:28am May 28
with love you can deal with the daily BS and talk and work it out. with lust you leave at the drop of a hat.
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 10:32am May 28
love surpasses sex. lust is only sexual or satisfies a need. love has all you want, need and desire if you can surrender to it. love is God who has it all for you if you stay the course, and lust is the Devil who only can give you immediate gratification.
Adrianne Owens at 10:41am May 28
Nikia and Jason said it just right..Beautiful answers!
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 11:38am May 28 via Facebook Mobile
When you can't stop thinking about what is in between that person's legs. . . that's lust, if you can't stop thinking about the individual, that's love. You gain love once you have gotten to know a person, been in that's world, gained a certain level of respect for that person.
The Amen Corner
Patrick Covington is saying wow last question whew! Why is that people always have a Amen corner on some bullshit but when something positive being said ppl act like like they ass mute! Example my baby daddy aint shit (Amen girl), I love my man he is the world (Crickets......). Lets Talk!
Carmen Renee at 1:53pm May 28
U are so right... I have always wonder this very same thing... great questions cant read the answers on this one
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 2:01pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
People feed off of negativity. . . most people like to think that they are better off than the next person.... so if they see you down, there response is Amen.
Patrick Covington at 2:05pm May 28
See the negative ppl not even speaking up might be saying he aint talking to me girl (amen)
Tiffany Jones at 2:08pm May 28
Misery loves company. Hurt people, hurt people. The crabs in a bucket theory. To encourage is a challenge, to discourage is an art. Shall I go on.....?
Shameka Powell at 2:14pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
U beat me to it Tiffany...please continue...because the main ones that enjoy giving and feeding off of that negative energy will be reading this...give them some insight!
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 2:14pm May 28
because being negative is so easy and congratulating and showing love and being positive is so hard for most. they are use to drama,pain, and negativity that that is all they know and tend to relate too. i mean come on...use the "march for a cause photoshoot for example...maybe if we said it was a freakneek shoot people would've came...and the sistercirlce realtalk 101 group i got...i have yet to put up a topic about haters or dramas and i'm sure if i do females will discuss it all day..i'll keep trying though...but people need to come out that mind frame....it's a personal prob for them i guess.
Darius Knox at 2:15pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
its a natural phenomenon
Patrick Covington at 2:15pm May 28
Tiffany you got the floor! I am waiting on the rest of ppl to respond.
Tiffany Jones at 2:27pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
I hate to say, but it goes back to the typical slave mentality. Some people still have it. If you're out in the field with them, it's all good. Amen to the struggles. But if you move into the house....no love. That's where hating came from. They love to kill a dream because they lacked the innovation to think if it themselves. They love to ruin a marriage because it wasn't their season or they couldn't keep theirs together. They love to put you down because you rose above. Just my opinion folks. In short, favor aint fair. And the devil works overtime to use these people to bring down others when really the simplest thing to do would be ask then how they got up or could they help them be better.
Shameka Powell at 2:29pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
...and that's that!! Thanks Tiff!! LoL!
Patrick Covington at 2:31pm May 28
NOW THAT IS A REAL AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU DAMN
Evelyn Satisfied Beam at 2:45pm May 28
WOW...so true. i swear i think about shit like this all the time...and its because most of OUR ppl are BS-ers.
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 2:51pm May 28
misery loves company
Kris Williams at 3:06pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
Im really luvin tiffany's depth on this..so tru...
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 4:39pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
I love Tiffany's responses. My wife has a friend that is always letting some of their friends move in when they are down on their luck or if they have been put down by their man. She is always the aman woman my wife doesn't see this but i do. That's why i don't like being around her. I have requested that she not come over if i'm at home. And i just had a conversation at work about a coworker who is an energy leech. If you respond to him positive or negative he has the opposite competitive answer for you. Or he will hang nearby and observe and go to someone else to be a yes person on his hatred report. If you don't say anything he thinks your mad at him.
Sheryl Atkins at 4:59pm May 28
lol
Evelyn Satisfied Beam at 9:56pm May 28
i like Mizz Tiff! soooo true!
Carmen Renee at 1:53pm May 28
U are so right... I have always wonder this very same thing... great questions cant read the answers on this one
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 2:01pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
People feed off of negativity. . . most people like to think that they are better off than the next person.... so if they see you down, there response is Amen.
Patrick Covington at 2:05pm May 28
See the negative ppl not even speaking up might be saying he aint talking to me girl (amen)
Tiffany Jones at 2:08pm May 28
Misery loves company. Hurt people, hurt people. The crabs in a bucket theory. To encourage is a challenge, to discourage is an art. Shall I go on.....?
Shameka Powell at 2:14pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
U beat me to it Tiffany...please continue...because the main ones that enjoy giving and feeding off of that negative energy will be reading this...give them some insight!
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 2:14pm May 28
because being negative is so easy and congratulating and showing love and being positive is so hard for most. they are use to drama,pain, and negativity that that is all they know and tend to relate too. i mean come on...use the "march for a cause photoshoot for example...maybe if we said it was a freakneek shoot people would've came...and the sistercirlce realtalk 101 group i got...i have yet to put up a topic about haters or dramas and i'm sure if i do females will discuss it all day..i'll keep trying though...but people need to come out that mind frame....it's a personal prob for them i guess.
Darius Knox at 2:15pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
its a natural phenomenon
Patrick Covington at 2:15pm May 28
Tiffany you got the floor! I am waiting on the rest of ppl to respond.
Tiffany Jones at 2:27pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
I hate to say, but it goes back to the typical slave mentality. Some people still have it. If you're out in the field with them, it's all good. Amen to the struggles. But if you move into the house....no love. That's where hating came from. They love to kill a dream because they lacked the innovation to think if it themselves. They love to ruin a marriage because it wasn't their season or they couldn't keep theirs together. They love to put you down because you rose above. Just my opinion folks. In short, favor aint fair. And the devil works overtime to use these people to bring down others when really the simplest thing to do would be ask then how they got up or could they help them be better.
Shameka Powell at 2:29pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
...and that's that!! Thanks Tiff!! LoL!
Patrick Covington at 2:31pm May 28
NOW THAT IS A REAL AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU DAMN
Evelyn Satisfied Beam at 2:45pm May 28
WOW...so true. i swear i think about shit like this all the time...and its because most of OUR ppl are BS-ers.
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 2:51pm May 28
misery loves company
Kris Williams at 3:06pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
Im really luvin tiffany's depth on this..so tru...
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 4:39pm May 28 via Facebook Mobile
I love Tiffany's responses. My wife has a friend that is always letting some of their friends move in when they are down on their luck or if they have been put down by their man. She is always the aman woman my wife doesn't see this but i do. That's why i don't like being around her. I have requested that she not come over if i'm at home. And i just had a conversation at work about a coworker who is an energy leech. If you respond to him positive or negative he has the opposite competitive answer for you. Or he will hang nearby and observe and go to someone else to be a yes person on his hatred report. If you don't say anything he thinks your mad at him.
Sheryl Atkins at 4:59pm May 28
lol
Evelyn Satisfied Beam at 9:56pm May 28
i like Mizz Tiff! soooo true!
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Blame Game
Patrick Covington is asking why is so easy for us to blame someone else instead of blaming ourselves when we are wrong. Ex. I cheated on you because you are never around or I thought you were. That type of stuff!
Yolanda Anderson at 8:57am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
Placing blame makes the offender not feel so bad about doing it. It was your fault I cheated so you should not only take all the blame but the pain of the situation as well.
MsTalja' SavyPhrase Walker at 9:03am May 26
It's a cop out! Ppl typically blame others to cover up their is because 9:10 "that a$$ somewhere showing out/ claiming to be single an looking to mingle"
Felicia Yvette Duffin at 9:04am May 26
some just can't accept the fact that they actually have faults. placing blame elsewhere protects the perfection that some feel they have.
Adrianne Owens at 9:07am May 26
HAHAHA....Preach Pat Preach....we don't want to be wrong....we are so caught up in ourselves that we don't care about the other person...besides by the time it gets to the cheating point, you really don't care if they feel like it was them or you.....
Darius Knox at 9:15am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
habit/ fad/ immaturity/ stupidity
Nina Holley at 9:16am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
It's simple. Pple like to make other pple think it's their fault because they know some person will be insecure enough to believe it's their fault.
Patrick Covington at 9:29am May 26
NINA speak lol
Crystyle Princessasia Clark at 10:30am May 26
AGREE WITH YOLANDA....
Nina Holley at 10:31am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
It's the truth.
Dedra Monique Ford at 10:34am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
Cause people don't wanna be held responsible for their actions and they think by blaming the other person wil make them look good. They just try to get theirselves out of the wrong and like the post said above from mines, dey know someone who's insecure that would believe them. Cheaters are liars and dey dnt have respect for others better yet themselves so basically they just don't care.Its no excuse watsoever cheat on your SO(siginificant other).
Yolanda Anderson at 8:57am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
Placing blame makes the offender not feel so bad about doing it. It was your fault I cheated so you should not only take all the blame but the pain of the situation as well.
MsTalja' SavyPhrase Walker at 9:03am May 26
It's a cop out! Ppl typically blame others to cover up their is because 9:10 "that a$$ somewhere showing out/ claiming to be single an looking to mingle"
Felicia Yvette Duffin at 9:04am May 26
some just can't accept the fact that they actually have faults. placing blame elsewhere protects the perfection that some feel they have.
Adrianne Owens at 9:07am May 26
HAHAHA....Preach Pat Preach....we don't want to be wrong....we are so caught up in ourselves that we don't care about the other person...besides by the time it gets to the cheating point, you really don't care if they feel like it was them or you.....
Darius Knox at 9:15am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
habit/ fad/ immaturity/ stupidity
Nina Holley at 9:16am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
It's simple. Pple like to make other pple think it's their fault because they know some person will be insecure enough to believe it's their fault.
Patrick Covington at 9:29am May 26
NINA speak lol
Crystyle Princessasia Clark at 10:30am May 26
AGREE WITH YOLANDA....
Nina Holley at 10:31am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
It's the truth.
Dedra Monique Ford at 10:34am May 26 via Facebook Mobile
Cause people don't wanna be held responsible for their actions and they think by blaming the other person wil make them look good. They just try to get theirselves out of the wrong and like the post said above from mines, dey know someone who's insecure that would believe them. Cheaters are liars and dey dnt have respect for others better yet themselves so basically they just don't care.Its no excuse watsoever cheat on your SO(siginificant other).
Finding A Good Mate
Patrick Covington is asking why do ppl always say it is hard to find a good man or woman here? What are some of the issues you run into? Hope everyone comments on this and peep out the other questions!
Tominique Sherrel at 2:51pm May 26
I run into guys that put on acts to get what they want from me. They tell you everything that you want to hear and claim they're a good guy but their actions prove differently. Too many guys are concerned with seeing how many women they can sleep with rather than finding that one special woman to settle down with
Shonda Sargent at 2:58pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
I would have to agree with Tominque
Brandy Greene at 2:58pm May 26
Its really is hard to find a good man here, I think there are alot of good women out here, but you have to look at statistics, in Memphis the ratio of women to men if 52% to 48%, there is more women out here for the men than it is for the pool of men there is for us. Memphis always has had a stereotype of a "pimpin" mentality. Men who are unstable... Read Moreand not ready to grow up, alot of them are still trying to live the fast life and aren't thinking about having a significant other. Most women and some men set standards that are too high, there is nothing wrong with that but if you are looking for a trophy man/woman, with good credit, no kids, own their own home, independent, and soforth, you can't have your cake and eat it too, nobody is perfect. You can't get a Halle or a Boris everytime you go out searching for a man or a woman. Men are afraid of commitment and so are some women. There are some good men and women out here, sometimes you have to look where you least expect it.
Brandy Greene at 3:04pm May 26
I do agree that it is all about how many women that guys can sleep with...thats that "PIMPIN" I was referring to...
Tominique Sherrel at 3:05pm May 26
Yea I agree Brandy.People set standards and try to find someone who meets all of them rather than most of them. I have been known to have high standards myself but I'm not going to turn a guy away just because he doesn't meet all of them.If he's a good guy and shows that he is interested in a committed relationship then I will give it a shot
Carmen Renee at 3:09pm May 26
NO ONE WANTS TO BE HONEST ANY MORE
Frederick Westbrooks at 3:20pm May 26
C'mon men the ladies are ruling on us speak up fellows this is your to let the ladies know what's good
Darius Knox at 3:33pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
I meet great girls all the time
Dedra Monique Ford at 3:39pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
People says its hard to find that right person cause of the people we tend to meet or interact with on a daily basis. I guess they won't be so hard to find if we look in the right places.we nt gonna find them in the same place(as being immature,fake,selfish, basically wat experiences u r used to getting frm past bf/gf)so we cnt look in da sme spot and expect something different.If our minds are fixated on the idea that good men/women are hard to find,what shal we expect??? I don't honestly think its so hard like peopke say cause there are good men/women out here.Just have to be patient and knowwhat you want out of a man/woman.don't settle for less.And we must stay focus and be ourselves.(nt try to portray something different) cause you want someone that likes you for you.If you constantly say good men are hard to find, then they will be.Get out and meet other people. There are good men/women out there.
Nikia West at 3:50pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
Women don't set standards and once they fall in love they think the man is going to all of a sudden get some respect for them. If I've done what I wanted and got what I wanted there's no need for me to change. And men don't want to take the time that's needed to learn a woman just because I'm strong doesn't mean I have no need for you it just means I won't let u get over on me.
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 4:25pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
I think it is about the standards we, male and female, set for ourselves. As for me, I think I have blocked good guys because of who I have allowed to be in my life. In my past, if a good man came along, I would find some way to push them away. . . now. . . I try to give a man a chance.
Tominique Sherrel at 2:51pm May 26
I run into guys that put on acts to get what they want from me. They tell you everything that you want to hear and claim they're a good guy but their actions prove differently. Too many guys are concerned with seeing how many women they can sleep with rather than finding that one special woman to settle down with
Shonda Sargent at 2:58pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
I would have to agree with Tominque
Brandy Greene at 2:58pm May 26
Its really is hard to find a good man here, I think there are alot of good women out here, but you have to look at statistics, in Memphis the ratio of women to men if 52% to 48%, there is more women out here for the men than it is for the pool of men there is for us. Memphis always has had a stereotype of a "pimpin" mentality. Men who are unstable... Read Moreand not ready to grow up, alot of them are still trying to live the fast life and aren't thinking about having a significant other. Most women and some men set standards that are too high, there is nothing wrong with that but if you are looking for a trophy man/woman, with good credit, no kids, own their own home, independent, and soforth, you can't have your cake and eat it too, nobody is perfect. You can't get a Halle or a Boris everytime you go out searching for a man or a woman. Men are afraid of commitment and so are some women. There are some good men and women out here, sometimes you have to look where you least expect it.
Brandy Greene at 3:04pm May 26
I do agree that it is all about how many women that guys can sleep with...thats that "PIMPIN" I was referring to...
Tominique Sherrel at 3:05pm May 26
Yea I agree Brandy.People set standards and try to find someone who meets all of them rather than most of them. I have been known to have high standards myself but I'm not going to turn a guy away just because he doesn't meet all of them.If he's a good guy and shows that he is interested in a committed relationship then I will give it a shot
Carmen Renee at 3:09pm May 26
NO ONE WANTS TO BE HONEST ANY MORE
Frederick Westbrooks at 3:20pm May 26
C'mon men the ladies are ruling on us speak up fellows this is your to let the ladies know what's good
Darius Knox at 3:33pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
I meet great girls all the time
Dedra Monique Ford at 3:39pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
People says its hard to find that right person cause of the people we tend to meet or interact with on a daily basis. I guess they won't be so hard to find if we look in the right places.we nt gonna find them in the same place(as being immature,fake,selfish, basically wat experiences u r used to getting frm past bf/gf)so we cnt look in da sme spot and expect something different.If our minds are fixated on the idea that good men/women are hard to find,what shal we expect??? I don't honestly think its so hard like peopke say cause there are good men/women out here.Just have to be patient and knowwhat you want out of a man/woman.don't settle for less.And we must stay focus and be ourselves.(nt try to portray something different) cause you want someone that likes you for you.If you constantly say good men are hard to find, then they will be.Get out and meet other people. There are good men/women out there.
Nikia West at 3:50pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
Women don't set standards and once they fall in love they think the man is going to all of a sudden get some respect for them. If I've done what I wanted and got what I wanted there's no need for me to change. And men don't want to take the time that's needed to learn a woman just because I'm strong doesn't mean I have no need for you it just means I won't let u get over on me.
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 4:25pm May 26 via Facebook Mobile
I think it is about the standards we, male and female, set for ourselves. As for me, I think I have blocked good guys because of who I have allowed to be in my life. In my past, if a good man came along, I would find some way to push them away. . . now. . . I try to give a man a chance.
Friday, May 22, 2009
When To Walk
Patrick Covington going to ask this question for all! Why do women think trying to have a baby going to keep a man! If his ass want to bounce why not let him walk the fuc* on away! Why get knocked up and starting screaming all that punk Shi*? All comments are welcome
Nei'cee Rae Weddle at 11:31am May 20
BECUZ THEY STUPID! NUFF SAID LOL
Stephanie Skyy DuVentre' at 11:32am May 20
If she thinks thats ... she's still got a lot to learn.
James Davis at 11:32am May 20
Dude.. you're gonna get in trouble for this one.. lol.. in my opinion.. it's just wishful thinking....lol
Stephanie Skyy DuVentre' at 11:33am May 20
ha, wishful thinking, u sho'll know what to say, used the perfect words to sum all that up
Jasmine Samiya Nesbitt at 11:36am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I hope some women aren't that crazy to think like that but I know some women that have thought like that...my thing is..if he didn't wanna be with you before you got pregnant..there's no reason..to be with you now..if a woman truly believe that he's going to be there...well there's alot of insercure issues with her..& thats not good for a child if you ask me..
Emanuelle Su-Kole Hite at 11:37am May 20
Bcuz she thinks he'll fall back in love with her since she's carrying his child. And she figures he's gta maintain sum kinda relationship with her since they have a child together, if he wants 2 b in the childs life. She thinks she can keep him 2 herself n that he wnt leave her bcuz a part of him is within her. But unfortunately that shyt doesnt work anymore n women who r foolish enough 2do that are ignorant!!
Arin Danielle Greer at 11:38am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Cuz they are stupid! Point...blank... period!
Lacei' Lewlovesmrwmisseshlm Carter at 11:39am May 20
THEY D0NT KN0W ANY BETTER...ITS SAD!
Marcellous Ka Sekhem Lovelace at 11:40am May 20
WHITE IMAGINATION AND FANTASY WORLD soap operas illusions swag TELL LIE VISION D&G POWDER PUFF PEOPLE HMMM AMERICA got this whole thing distorted you still have people trapped in the DESTRUCTION OF BLACK CIVILIZATION :(
Talia Tj Jasmine at 11:41am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Cuz their st00pid..nuff said. I def kn0w "someone" who got pregnant on purp0se! Soo f00lish & insecure
Cydnei DaModel Wooten at 11:42am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
In my opinion it depends on how that man was raised. Some men will step up to the plate and marry that women for the simple fact she's carring HIS child. But on the other hand SOME men will still leave. It just depends on the men though...
MsTalja' SavyPhrase Walker at 11:42am May 20
You're right! i dont understand why women believe this at all. The women that really believe this are the ones that caught the attention of a man while a) hanging out downtown on Beale b) checking him out because what he drives c) "his homeboy got "bread" so I know he must have some too! I wish these "5star chicks"=dummies GROW UP & MOVE ON
Patrick Covington at 11:48am May 20
It is pure foolish mess! If a man wants to leave let him leave.. I don't give a damn what you want let him leave. that is how abuse get started, unwanted kids and death. That goes for you stupid men two if they chick fuc*ing everyone on your block stop >>>>>> that is next question of the hr. Enough Said
Keierra Turner at 11:48am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
i so agree with emanuelle......stupid girls these days kno the way to the boy is thro the baby.......they string the baby along n their petty mess.......thinkin he gota fuck with me now cause i got his child.....n f the nigga stl dnt.....they childish ass bring up child support....knowin that guy dnt wanta do that......lol.....thats why u gota watch who u fuckn.....pple crazy these days.......
Sherelle Lynn Exom at 11:52am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
its not just women who do this childish crap. i had been with my sons father for 5 years and when the relationship was suffering because of certain things he did he so called himself trapping me. So now he has a daughter on the way and still doesnt have me especially when i found out that he had went thru great lengths to do this had intentionally and i have heard this same thing from other women. men get their significant others pregnant thinkin that now they wont leave bcuz they r stuck, as if to say no one else will want them because they have children. my dude wanted me pregnant and in the house. its becoming more and more common nowadays
LaSondra Deneon Davis at 11:52am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I know a few ppl that has gotten pregnant on purpose thats just stupid & it shows how insecure they are & the thing about it is the guy isnt even with them one of the guys has even married someone else & has started a family with another woman now they left with children that they are struggling to take care of just because they made stupid decisions...Being selfish & foolish gets you no where.
Patrick Covington at 11:57am May 20
sherelle I have heard that mess also.. That is some foul shit to do also. We not knocking the good women but there are some that don't make any since at all!!!
Jade Fox at 12:11pm May 20
There are some MEN that try and do the same thing! They know that the girl is either cheating, do no really love him, Is about to leave him, doesnt spend enough time with him and he wants to be closer to her or either she's Gorgeous with distinctive features and they would LOVE to have their child look like them(true story lmao) so they play condom games. Some women do it because homeboy is rich and will have to pay 3gs a month child support or either she thinks she is in Love. If someone that you are in love with leaves you, there is no legal way or no reason to make them stay. But if you have a baby for this person, you have every legal excuse to pester, hound, or see this person again so its not officially over until you want it to be. Some women even feel that the guy will be awestruck by his baby thus making him nicer to you and care a little more. Thats occasionally true if its his FIRST baby or if you gave birth to his FIRST Son if he has all daughters or FIRST daughter if he h
Jade Fox at 12:13pm May 20
Has all sons. Now If he has 10 kids by 10 different women that he doesnt do JACK for, then you already know that you are just one of the rustlers and he was only impressed by the first one LMAO
Tenecia Davis at 12:18pm May 20
I MUST AGREE I KNOW SOME PEOPLE LIKE THAT AT THIS MOMENT HAVING A BAY AINT GOING TO KEEP THEY ASS AROUND THATS WHY I DONT HAVE KIDS I DO JUST GREAT WITHOUT BOTH. DONT THINK FOR A MOMENT HE WILL BE THERE FOREVER CAUSE IT WONT HELP BABIES AINT PUT ON EARTH FOR A SHOW N TELL.
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 12:52pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I have an even bigger question, why try to get pregnant by Ray-Ray, who broke as Hell. . . and can't afford to take care of himself, let alone somebody else. . . Hell I don't like manipulation at any cost, but Hell if you are going to play the role of Trap Star, can you Please get with a dude that can take care of his business. . .
Nei'cee Rae Weddle at 11:31am May 20
BECUZ THEY STUPID! NUFF SAID LOL
Stephanie Skyy DuVentre' at 11:32am May 20
If she thinks thats ... she's still got a lot to learn.
James Davis at 11:32am May 20
Dude.. you're gonna get in trouble for this one.. lol.. in my opinion.. it's just wishful thinking....lol
Stephanie Skyy DuVentre' at 11:33am May 20
ha, wishful thinking, u sho'll know what to say, used the perfect words to sum all that up
Jasmine Samiya Nesbitt at 11:36am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I hope some women aren't that crazy to think like that but I know some women that have thought like that...my thing is..if he didn't wanna be with you before you got pregnant..there's no reason..to be with you now..if a woman truly believe that he's going to be there...well there's alot of insercure issues with her..& thats not good for a child if you ask me..
Emanuelle Su-Kole Hite at 11:37am May 20
Bcuz she thinks he'll fall back in love with her since she's carrying his child. And she figures he's gta maintain sum kinda relationship with her since they have a child together, if he wants 2 b in the childs life. She thinks she can keep him 2 herself n that he wnt leave her bcuz a part of him is within her. But unfortunately that shyt doesnt work anymore n women who r foolish enough 2do that are ignorant!!
Arin Danielle Greer at 11:38am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Cuz they are stupid! Point...blank... period!
Lacei' Lewlovesmrwmisseshlm Carter at 11:39am May 20
THEY D0NT KN0W ANY BETTER...ITS SAD!
Marcellous Ka Sekhem Lovelace at 11:40am May 20
WHITE IMAGINATION AND FANTASY WORLD soap operas illusions swag TELL LIE VISION D&G POWDER PUFF PEOPLE HMMM AMERICA got this whole thing distorted you still have people trapped in the DESTRUCTION OF BLACK CIVILIZATION :(
Talia Tj Jasmine at 11:41am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Cuz their st00pid..nuff said. I def kn0w "someone" who got pregnant on purp0se! Soo f00lish & insecure
Cydnei DaModel Wooten at 11:42am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
In my opinion it depends on how that man was raised. Some men will step up to the plate and marry that women for the simple fact she's carring HIS child. But on the other hand SOME men will still leave. It just depends on the men though...
MsTalja' SavyPhrase Walker at 11:42am May 20
You're right! i dont understand why women believe this at all. The women that really believe this are the ones that caught the attention of a man while a) hanging out downtown on Beale b) checking him out because what he drives c) "his homeboy got "bread" so I know he must have some too! I wish these "5star chicks"=dummies GROW UP & MOVE ON
Patrick Covington at 11:48am May 20
It is pure foolish mess! If a man wants to leave let him leave.. I don't give a damn what you want let him leave. that is how abuse get started, unwanted kids and death. That goes for you stupid men two if they chick fuc*ing everyone on your block stop >>>>>> that is next question of the hr. Enough Said
Keierra Turner at 11:48am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
i so agree with emanuelle......stupid girls these days kno the way to the boy is thro the baby.......they string the baby along n their petty mess.......thinkin he gota fuck with me now cause i got his child.....n f the nigga stl dnt.....they childish ass bring up child support....knowin that guy dnt wanta do that......lol.....thats why u gota watch who u fuckn.....pple crazy these days.......
Sherelle Lynn Exom at 11:52am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
its not just women who do this childish crap. i had been with my sons father for 5 years and when the relationship was suffering because of certain things he did he so called himself trapping me. So now he has a daughter on the way and still doesnt have me especially when i found out that he had went thru great lengths to do this had intentionally and i have heard this same thing from other women. men get their significant others pregnant thinkin that now they wont leave bcuz they r stuck, as if to say no one else will want them because they have children. my dude wanted me pregnant and in the house. its becoming more and more common nowadays
LaSondra Deneon Davis at 11:52am May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I know a few ppl that has gotten pregnant on purpose thats just stupid & it shows how insecure they are & the thing about it is the guy isnt even with them one of the guys has even married someone else & has started a family with another woman now they left with children that they are struggling to take care of just because they made stupid decisions...Being selfish & foolish gets you no where.
Patrick Covington at 11:57am May 20
sherelle I have heard that mess also.. That is some foul shit to do also. We not knocking the good women but there are some that don't make any since at all!!!
Jade Fox at 12:11pm May 20
There are some MEN that try and do the same thing! They know that the girl is either cheating, do no really love him, Is about to leave him, doesnt spend enough time with him and he wants to be closer to her or either she's Gorgeous with distinctive features and they would LOVE to have their child look like them(true story lmao) so they play condom games. Some women do it because homeboy is rich and will have to pay 3gs a month child support or either she thinks she is in Love. If someone that you are in love with leaves you, there is no legal way or no reason to make them stay. But if you have a baby for this person, you have every legal excuse to pester, hound, or see this person again so its not officially over until you want it to be. Some women even feel that the guy will be awestruck by his baby thus making him nicer to you and care a little more. Thats occasionally true if its his FIRST baby or if you gave birth to his FIRST Son if he has all daughters or FIRST daughter if he h
Jade Fox at 12:13pm May 20
Has all sons. Now If he has 10 kids by 10 different women that he doesnt do JACK for, then you already know that you are just one of the rustlers and he was only impressed by the first one LMAO
Tenecia Davis at 12:18pm May 20
I MUST AGREE I KNOW SOME PEOPLE LIKE THAT AT THIS MOMENT HAVING A BAY AINT GOING TO KEEP THEY ASS AROUND THATS WHY I DONT HAVE KIDS I DO JUST GREAT WITHOUT BOTH. DONT THINK FOR A MOMENT HE WILL BE THERE FOREVER CAUSE IT WONT HELP BABIES AINT PUT ON EARTH FOR A SHOW N TELL.
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 12:52pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I have an even bigger question, why try to get pregnant by Ray-Ray, who broke as Hell. . . and can't afford to take care of himself, let alone somebody else. . . Hell I don't like manipulation at any cost, but Hell if you are going to play the role of Trap Star, can you Please get with a dude that can take care of his business. . .
Why Make Her A Housewife
Patrick Covington Lunch time question! Why dudes always try to make a hoe a housewife when you got all this wonderful women out here! Begging her to stop doing all his boys, buying her shi* and crying up behind some silly as* hoe! But treat these Queens like 3day trash! Faithful to the hoe but cheat on the Queen! What sense does that make?
Anna Richardson at 12:19pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Thank you Patrick! I couldn't let this go by without saying something...they[men] don't want good women,they just want str8 hoes...then when they see that we are gone they start missing us!!
Khris Djkutta Powell at 12:23pm May 20
HEY PAT...I AGREE TOTALLY!!! But what i wanna know is just the opposite..why do women SAY they want a REAL man, but continue to be with unemployed, pants-sagging gold teeth,club LIVING,rather be with my boys,abusive men?
Anna Richardson at 12:25pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Not all women do,but we need to send all the hoes to all those men. So real women can find real men
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 12:26pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I agree, it seems like when a man gets a good woman, he does not know how to treat her, and when she leaves. . . he wants to try everything in his power to try and get her back. . . but if you were doing right in the first place. . . oooo this is hitting home. . . let me do some work, I'm about to preach
Alisha Miss Caprice Wilson at 12:28pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
A man can't appreciate a GOOD woman, they value the ones that cheat on them, treat them wrong or talk bad to them. Men would rather glorify hoes than respect a woman that's actually there for them. The sayin good girls finish last is soo true !!
Adrianne Owens at 12:28pm May 20
Real men act like they scared to step up and real women act like they can't do no better.
Jade Fox at 12:29pm May 20
SOOOO TRUE! Well its because hoes have swagger and are wanted,admired, and desired by other men and have dealt with so many men until they know the game well and know exactly what you need to hear and what you DONT need to hear. Hoes are a CHALLENEGE. See if a chick is a homebody no swag at home taking care of his kids cooking and is passive then wheres the challenge? Now if she's doing this now but before she was a Club hopping that fucked with so many people but she changed for YOU then its a feeling of accomplishment. Of course after years he will get bored with her new behavior but as soon as he slips up, then SHE will slip up and he will do anything to make sure she dont go back into how mode and leave him for one of his boys. If a queen comes home late and says she was at the library, he knows its true and he's not worried. But when the ex hoe comes home late he's hyped wondering if she went back to her old ways. Its the excitement of it all for him. Theres never a dull moment
Toyia T.J. Jannette at 12:31pm May 20
SMH... Men have one thing and want another... Men want the wifey type but they also want something that makes them feel good as a man... And for some men that's a hott chick... Which in some cases translates into a trifling chick... So it's two-fold...just as many things are... Men can say they want a good woman... But they chase material and physical attributes... When those two things have nothing to do with how a WOMAN treats her MAN... my opinion...
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 12:31pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
never thought of it that way Jade.
Sasha Campbell at 12:32pm May 20
No sense what so eva!
Anna Richardson at 12:34pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
A agree with all of it!! I know how I am,and I can't ever get a good friend,more less a good man. So I gave up for now..its not worth my time,getting him and then he sees a girl with some shorts up her ass on,and a bra on and he runs 2 her. 4get the one that has 2 jobs,going to school and trying to be someone.
Jade Fox at 12:39pm May 20
Its not just men, PEOPLE are attracted to swagger. Ladies if we had a sensitive ass Religious henpecked ass dude who had no opinion whatsoever who we ran all over who would give us the world and be a good father to our kids who only wanted to work come home to you and stay up under your ass all day would you want him or take him seriously? FUCK NO and you know as soon as he falls alseep you're gonna go dick hunting in the club trying to find his EXACT opposite and eventually you will leave him for an asshole because the asshole is exciting lol
Patrick Covington at 12:41pm May 20
I am going to say this again to all you women you want a good man.. You make him chase you. Let him sniff a lil ass and run and watch his ass chase! You control this shit I am telling you don't give too much too soon.. Just enough for him to wonder who you are. Make him get to know you!
Anna Richardson at 12:41pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I have a question. How do all these couples stay married soo long and not cheat? And if they do cheat,why do they stay married??
Royce TheSmim Morgan at 12:41pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Some guys just like that twisted ass world and its all a big ass game....some women do the same....crazy how some people do whatever it takes to be faithful to a mystery
Patrick Covington at 12:45pm May 20
Anna out of 10 9 cheat! They have built so much together it would cost much more to let go.. Then you got ppl that have good general interest they share things and bond.. The key to life is keeping it exciting!
Crystyle Princessasia Clark at 1:54pm May 20
LOVE IT.....THE BEST
Chris Bell at 2:19pm May 20
true and great: but what about the guys who don't fit the stereotypical success story? no looks in clubs or other social venues? think about it....apples are so accessable, try finding a mango...in other words, the hoe is so easy to grab while the good girl is to herself.
Brandy Greene at 2:43pm May 20
I love this one Pat, There are alot of good women out here, I know, but I always wondered why men go out there and get the worst kind of women and try to wife them up, I think its because they like drama, having a good woman and a normal relationship is too much of the right thing to do. And us women are attracted to the ones that treat us that way, we overlook the guys that have potential to treat us the way we deserve to be treated.
Ranisha Mcbride at 6:27pm May 21
AW DAMN these were some good points. Its funny that there could be a very good woman in front of a guy and he will over look her for a hoe all because she has some self-respect and dignity and doesn't let every tom, dick, and harry see her practically naked in the streets buts that is the kind of stuff guys like. Hell sometimes when I go out to the club people be looking at me like I'm over dressed and you never see a guy look my way but the minute a chick walk by in a shirt that she wearing as dress he run after her. Its funny because my granny always said "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free".
Anna Richardson at 12:19pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Thank you Patrick! I couldn't let this go by without saying something...they[men] don't want good women,they just want str8 hoes...then when they see that we are gone they start missing us!!
Khris Djkutta Powell at 12:23pm May 20
HEY PAT...I AGREE TOTALLY!!! But what i wanna know is just the opposite..why do women SAY they want a REAL man, but continue to be with unemployed, pants-sagging gold teeth,club LIVING,rather be with my boys,abusive men?
Anna Richardson at 12:25pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Not all women do,but we need to send all the hoes to all those men. So real women can find real men
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 12:26pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I agree, it seems like when a man gets a good woman, he does not know how to treat her, and when she leaves. . . he wants to try everything in his power to try and get her back. . . but if you were doing right in the first place. . . oooo this is hitting home. . . let me do some work, I'm about to preach
Alisha Miss Caprice Wilson at 12:28pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
A man can't appreciate a GOOD woman, they value the ones that cheat on them, treat them wrong or talk bad to them. Men would rather glorify hoes than respect a woman that's actually there for them. The sayin good girls finish last is soo true !!
Adrianne Owens at 12:28pm May 20
Real men act like they scared to step up and real women act like they can't do no better.
Jade Fox at 12:29pm May 20
SOOOO TRUE! Well its because hoes have swagger and are wanted,admired, and desired by other men and have dealt with so many men until they know the game well and know exactly what you need to hear and what you DONT need to hear. Hoes are a CHALLENEGE. See if a chick is a homebody no swag at home taking care of his kids cooking and is passive then wheres the challenge? Now if she's doing this now but before she was a Club hopping that fucked with so many people but she changed for YOU then its a feeling of accomplishment. Of course after years he will get bored with her new behavior but as soon as he slips up, then SHE will slip up and he will do anything to make sure she dont go back into how mode and leave him for one of his boys. If a queen comes home late and says she was at the library, he knows its true and he's not worried. But when the ex hoe comes home late he's hyped wondering if she went back to her old ways. Its the excitement of it all for him. Theres never a dull moment
Toyia T.J. Jannette at 12:31pm May 20
SMH... Men have one thing and want another... Men want the wifey type but they also want something that makes them feel good as a man... And for some men that's a hott chick... Which in some cases translates into a trifling chick... So it's two-fold...just as many things are... Men can say they want a good woman... But they chase material and physical attributes... When those two things have nothing to do with how a WOMAN treats her MAN... my opinion...
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 12:31pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
never thought of it that way Jade.
Sasha Campbell at 12:32pm May 20
No sense what so eva!
Anna Richardson at 12:34pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
A agree with all of it!! I know how I am,and I can't ever get a good friend,more less a good man. So I gave up for now..its not worth my time,getting him and then he sees a girl with some shorts up her ass on,and a bra on and he runs 2 her. 4get the one that has 2 jobs,going to school and trying to be someone.
Jade Fox at 12:39pm May 20
Its not just men, PEOPLE are attracted to swagger. Ladies if we had a sensitive ass Religious henpecked ass dude who had no opinion whatsoever who we ran all over who would give us the world and be a good father to our kids who only wanted to work come home to you and stay up under your ass all day would you want him or take him seriously? FUCK NO and you know as soon as he falls alseep you're gonna go dick hunting in the club trying to find his EXACT opposite and eventually you will leave him for an asshole because the asshole is exciting lol
Patrick Covington at 12:41pm May 20
I am going to say this again to all you women you want a good man.. You make him chase you. Let him sniff a lil ass and run and watch his ass chase! You control this shit I am telling you don't give too much too soon.. Just enough for him to wonder who you are. Make him get to know you!
Anna Richardson at 12:41pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
I have a question. How do all these couples stay married soo long and not cheat? And if they do cheat,why do they stay married??
Royce TheSmim Morgan at 12:41pm May 20 via Facebook Mobile
Some guys just like that twisted ass world and its all a big ass game....some women do the same....crazy how some people do whatever it takes to be faithful to a mystery
Patrick Covington at 12:45pm May 20
Anna out of 10 9 cheat! They have built so much together it would cost much more to let go.. Then you got ppl that have good general interest they share things and bond.. The key to life is keeping it exciting!
Crystyle Princessasia Clark at 1:54pm May 20
LOVE IT.....THE BEST
Chris Bell at 2:19pm May 20
true and great: but what about the guys who don't fit the stereotypical success story? no looks in clubs or other social venues? think about it....apples are so accessable, try finding a mango...in other words, the hoe is so easy to grab while the good girl is to herself.
Brandy Greene at 2:43pm May 20
I love this one Pat, There are alot of good women out here, I know, but I always wondered why men go out there and get the worst kind of women and try to wife them up, I think its because they like drama, having a good woman and a normal relationship is too much of the right thing to do. And us women are attracted to the ones that treat us that way, we overlook the guys that have potential to treat us the way we deserve to be treated.
Ranisha Mcbride at 6:27pm May 21
AW DAMN these were some good points. Its funny that there could be a very good woman in front of a guy and he will over look her for a hoe all because she has some self-respect and dignity and doesn't let every tom, dick, and harry see her practically naked in the streets buts that is the kind of stuff guys like. Hell sometimes when I go out to the club people be looking at me like I'm over dressed and you never see a guy look my way but the minute a chick walk by in a shirt that she wearing as dress he run after her. Its funny because my granny always said "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free".
Sabotage
Patrick Covington going to ask this question for all! Why do we have people that try to get close to us only to sabotage our lives? What kind of silly as* shi* is this? How much should we endure before we open our MF eyes? All comments are welcome.
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Jamie Perry at 9:11am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Jealousy. Enough said.
Tanisha Holt at 9:31am May 21
What do we do if these people are family members is the question that I have. It's easy to just say "F" folks that are not related to you but your family is family forever....
Carmen Renee at 9:35am May 21
pure haterism
Patrick Covington at 9:38am May 21
You can put your family in check! You are your own person and they don't shit where you eat!
Kelli Talley at 9:39am May 21
misery loves company...some ppl r so obsessed w/ negativity that they can't help but be jealous of every positive thing in someone else's life, therefore they do all they can to turn ur fortune into misfortune.
LaShandra Johnson at 9:45am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
I think its jealousy. People hate when other people are doing good. Instead of trying to get like them and do something positive...they would rather bring them down.Misery loves company. But if you are TRULY a STRONG individual NO ONE can bring u down or sabotage your life. Their attempts would be just that...an attempt
Stephanie Skyy DuVentre' at 10:04am May 21
misery loves company, my grandma taught me long ago. Be careful about the company u keep. I don't always understand people's logic when they do some of the the trifling and low down things they do ... but everybody doesn't know HIM and some people don't have the same morals or any for that matter. I just pray for them more than I pray for myself.
Joann Lewis-Massey at 10:10am May 21
I agree with all of you. Jealousy for what they don't have or can't be because God has'nt given it to them yet. But the Bible says, "Faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains." Pray.
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Jamie Perry at 9:11am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Jealousy. Enough said.
Tanisha Holt at 9:31am May 21
What do we do if these people are family members is the question that I have. It's easy to just say "F" folks that are not related to you but your family is family forever....
Carmen Renee at 9:35am May 21
pure haterism
Patrick Covington at 9:38am May 21
You can put your family in check! You are your own person and they don't shit where you eat!
Kelli Talley at 9:39am May 21
misery loves company...some ppl r so obsessed w/ negativity that they can't help but be jealous of every positive thing in someone else's life, therefore they do all they can to turn ur fortune into misfortune.
LaShandra Johnson at 9:45am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
I think its jealousy. People hate when other people are doing good. Instead of trying to get like them and do something positive...they would rather bring them down.Misery loves company. But if you are TRULY a STRONG individual NO ONE can bring u down or sabotage your life. Their attempts would be just that...an attempt
Stephanie Skyy DuVentre' at 10:04am May 21
misery loves company, my grandma taught me long ago. Be careful about the company u keep. I don't always understand people's logic when they do some of the the trifling and low down things they do ... but everybody doesn't know HIM and some people don't have the same morals or any for that matter. I just pray for them more than I pray for myself.
Joann Lewis-Massey at 10:10am May 21
I agree with all of you. Jealousy for what they don't have or can't be because God has'nt given it to them yet. But the Bible says, "Faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains." Pray.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Mental/Verbal Abuse
On my questions of the day, do you think mental/verbal abuse is worse than physical abuse? What are you thoughts on this.. Make sure to check out other questions also..
Shonda Sargent at 10:56am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
That's a good question Pat in my case the verbal and emotional was the worst. My scars and bruises healed but the words and thoughts he said an gave I still hear at times and they still hurt
Kiana Parker-Lee at 10:56am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
i think mental abuse is equally bad as physical abuse bc mental abuse is long term. physical abuse can leave u mentally affected as well. my advice. watch a few tyler perry movies! happy thursday! good question.
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 10:58am May 21
physical abuse will heal...mental and verbal can cause a person to drastically change their whole life around and way of thinking...it mental and verbal have a long term affect on people...physical abuse will heal...
Brandy Greene at 11:10am May 21
I think mental, verbal, and physical abuse is all about the same, it can do alot to hurt your character and it does have a long term effect on people, if you are beat up and yelled at to believe u are nothing, you are more than likely to evolve into thinking that you are nothing, its a cycle.....
Shunteria Swift at 11:11am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Actionz speak louder than wordz in some cases, in abusive situation I agree whole hearted that verbal abuse can do more damage sometimez...
Yolanda Dupree-Ingram at 11:12am May 21
yes
Britney QueenofRok Powers at 11:14am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
speakn erxperiance. five yrs with my ex. the sex against my will, the taste of blod in my mouth, the black eyes, broken bones all of the physical abuse hurted like hell. that started the emotional abuse. the verbal abuse only worsened it. the real hurt wasthe abuse i did to myself by letting him do this for years. i mean tru i cant jus blame me but i lethim do it. physical abuse causes emotional abuse, that causes mental abuse. the verbal hurt as bad but nutthn was worse than passionate abuse. that abuse that comes and goes....she loves him to death but hez this monster that loves her by mouth but wont stop hittn her. domestic violence is hard and it all hurts....im jus glad to be alive. (sorry i got all of subject i just needed to vent!)
Shonda Sargent at 11:17am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
That's okay Britney I understand for real
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:20am May 21
OMG that's real deep.....XOXO
Patrick Covington at 11:23am May 21
You are fine dear! Because ppl need to know there is a way out! Either you leave or you put a muthafucka in the ground if they put their hands on you.. There is no reason to hit anyone when you can walk away..
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:28am May 21
I can totally comment and relate on this due to the fact that I have been through it before..I actually loved this person almost more than I loved myself...But I mean to me none of them out weigh the other....B/c I'll never forget the 1st time he hit or the 10th or the harsh words that he said to me that we couldn't take back even though he said he was sorry ....I had to let go and realize that I did love myself to much to let this and allow that to happen to me....I deserved better...It's like I forgot who I was....I'm thankful to be alive and that is one secret that I have kept inside a long time.......(A deep Breath)XOXO
Patrick Covington at 11:31am May 21
I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL PPL NEED TO LET THIS OUT SO THEY CAN CLOSE THOSE CHAPTERS IN THEIR LIVES.. YOU ARE STRONGER NOW! YOU HAVE MORE POWER AND NOW YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WILL AND WILL NOT ALLOW!
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:33am May 21
WOW, Pat you really are getting alot of responses and people are letting it out b/c as women we have so much held in....I'm tearing up.....XOXO
Kerstin Taylor at 11:35am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
i think all abuse is terrible & shares the equal amount of pain. From me & my boys being poison, from me getting choked, from him kicking me out in negative degree weather w/o clothes, from him calling me a bitch, a whore, slut, a no good mother...all of it hurt the same.ppl look at the life time movies & say "she so stupid 2 stay w/ him...i won't do it" it's not that easy. men threathen the women and say "if u leave me i will kill u" some stay b/c they wanna live but if the stay they might not live....
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:36am May 21
You are so right......XOXO
Patrick Covington at 11:37am May 21
It is ok because to let it out! Because you gain your power back when you let that old out and work on your new things..
Jade Fox at 11:38am May 21
Mental is worse because someone could mentally abuse you so badly until it causes you to commit suicide, I nevr heard of someone commiting suicide because their lover beat the shit out of them. Either is WRONG, I will never allow anyone to abuse me and I will try not to be abusive myself
Brooke Mullenix at 11:44am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
its all bad and it all scars ur brain, its bad when u can relive every moment of it step by step,from a deadbeat-step dad to a boyfriend. people should really think b4 they act because it doesnt just go away overnight regardless if its mental or physical abuse. every situation is different and when u see a person getting help,going through counseling and actually changing for the better it can sometimes make u feel better about that person
Carmen Renee at 11:48am May 21
Abuse is abuse no matter what shapr or form it comes in..
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 11:48am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Verbal and mental is worst. Cause it will have you looking and examining your flaws deeply. You sleep and dream of it. You look at yourself hard in the mirror. You began to think i see what they mean i am not as cute as i make myself out to be. Maybe i do need to accept that i'm fat. That one's personal. Heard that from my wife of all people. No encouragement.
Shonda Sargent at 11:49am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
OMG that is so true. I use to be one of those people even when a friend would tell me her dude was hitting her or whatever I would tell her just leave you don't have to stay and in my head I was calling her stupid because she wouldn't leave him. But when it happened to me I didn't take my own advice. I have a daughter an I had to end it because I didn't want her to think it was okay to be treated that way and my son to think its okay for him to use his hands or words to control a women
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:50am May 21
When a person abuses someone else I don't think they know the dangers that may face or put themselves in especially if you don't what that person has been through in life b/c you never know what's on thier mind....xoxo
Patrick Covington at 11:52am May 21
YOU ALL HAVE A STORY THAT CAN HELP THE NEXT PERSON THAT IS DEALING WITH THIS NOW.. YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO THE MOVEMENT TO BUILD OUR QUEENS BACK UP!
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:53am May 21
YES INDEED XOXO
Shonda Sargent at 10:56am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
That's a good question Pat in my case the verbal and emotional was the worst. My scars and bruises healed but the words and thoughts he said an gave I still hear at times and they still hurt
Kiana Parker-Lee at 10:56am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
i think mental abuse is equally bad as physical abuse bc mental abuse is long term. physical abuse can leave u mentally affected as well. my advice. watch a few tyler perry movies! happy thursday! good question.
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 10:58am May 21
physical abuse will heal...mental and verbal can cause a person to drastically change their whole life around and way of thinking...it mental and verbal have a long term affect on people...physical abuse will heal...
Brandy Greene at 11:10am May 21
I think mental, verbal, and physical abuse is all about the same, it can do alot to hurt your character and it does have a long term effect on people, if you are beat up and yelled at to believe u are nothing, you are more than likely to evolve into thinking that you are nothing, its a cycle.....
Shunteria Swift at 11:11am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Actionz speak louder than wordz in some cases, in abusive situation I agree whole hearted that verbal abuse can do more damage sometimez...
Yolanda Dupree-Ingram at 11:12am May 21
yes
Britney QueenofRok Powers at 11:14am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
speakn erxperiance. five yrs with my ex. the sex against my will, the taste of blod in my mouth, the black eyes, broken bones all of the physical abuse hurted like hell. that started the emotional abuse. the verbal abuse only worsened it. the real hurt wasthe abuse i did to myself by letting him do this for years. i mean tru i cant jus blame me but i lethim do it. physical abuse causes emotional abuse, that causes mental abuse. the verbal hurt as bad but nutthn was worse than passionate abuse. that abuse that comes and goes....she loves him to death but hez this monster that loves her by mouth but wont stop hittn her. domestic violence is hard and it all hurts....im jus glad to be alive. (sorry i got all of subject i just needed to vent!)
Shonda Sargent at 11:17am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
That's okay Britney I understand for real
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:20am May 21
OMG that's real deep.....XOXO
Patrick Covington at 11:23am May 21
You are fine dear! Because ppl need to know there is a way out! Either you leave or you put a muthafucka in the ground if they put their hands on you.. There is no reason to hit anyone when you can walk away..
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:28am May 21
I can totally comment and relate on this due to the fact that I have been through it before..I actually loved this person almost more than I loved myself...But I mean to me none of them out weigh the other....B/c I'll never forget the 1st time he hit or the 10th or the harsh words that he said to me that we couldn't take back even though he said he was sorry ....I had to let go and realize that I did love myself to much to let this and allow that to happen to me....I deserved better...It's like I forgot who I was....I'm thankful to be alive and that is one secret that I have kept inside a long time.......(A deep Breath)XOXO
Patrick Covington at 11:31am May 21
I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL PPL NEED TO LET THIS OUT SO THEY CAN CLOSE THOSE CHAPTERS IN THEIR LIVES.. YOU ARE STRONGER NOW! YOU HAVE MORE POWER AND NOW YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WILL AND WILL NOT ALLOW!
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:33am May 21
WOW, Pat you really are getting alot of responses and people are letting it out b/c as women we have so much held in....I'm tearing up.....XOXO
Kerstin Taylor at 11:35am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
i think all abuse is terrible & shares the equal amount of pain. From me & my boys being poison, from me getting choked, from him kicking me out in negative degree weather w/o clothes, from him calling me a bitch, a whore, slut, a no good mother...all of it hurt the same.ppl look at the life time movies & say "she so stupid 2 stay w/ him...i won't do it" it's not that easy. men threathen the women and say "if u leave me i will kill u" some stay b/c they wanna live but if the stay they might not live....
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:36am May 21
You are so right......XOXO
Patrick Covington at 11:37am May 21
It is ok because to let it out! Because you gain your power back when you let that old out and work on your new things..
Jade Fox at 11:38am May 21
Mental is worse because someone could mentally abuse you so badly until it causes you to commit suicide, I nevr heard of someone commiting suicide because their lover beat the shit out of them. Either is WRONG, I will never allow anyone to abuse me and I will try not to be abusive myself
Brooke Mullenix at 11:44am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
its all bad and it all scars ur brain, its bad when u can relive every moment of it step by step,from a deadbeat-step dad to a boyfriend. people should really think b4 they act because it doesnt just go away overnight regardless if its mental or physical abuse. every situation is different and when u see a person getting help,going through counseling and actually changing for the better it can sometimes make u feel better about that person
Carmen Renee at 11:48am May 21
Abuse is abuse no matter what shapr or form it comes in..
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 11:48am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Verbal and mental is worst. Cause it will have you looking and examining your flaws deeply. You sleep and dream of it. You look at yourself hard in the mirror. You began to think i see what they mean i am not as cute as i make myself out to be. Maybe i do need to accept that i'm fat. That one's personal. Heard that from my wife of all people. No encouragement.
Shonda Sargent at 11:49am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
OMG that is so true. I use to be one of those people even when a friend would tell me her dude was hitting her or whatever I would tell her just leave you don't have to stay and in my head I was calling her stupid because she wouldn't leave him. But when it happened to me I didn't take my own advice. I have a daughter an I had to end it because I didn't want her to think it was okay to be treated that way and my son to think its okay for him to use his hands or words to control a women
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:50am May 21
When a person abuses someone else I don't think they know the dangers that may face or put themselves in especially if you don't what that person has been through in life b/c you never know what's on thier mind....xoxo
Patrick Covington at 11:52am May 21
YOU ALL HAVE A STORY THAT CAN HELP THE NEXT PERSON THAT IS DEALING WITH THIS NOW.. YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO THE MOVEMENT TO BUILD OUR QUEENS BACK UP!
Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:53am May 21
YES INDEED XOXO
Haters
is asking multi questions of the day, why do we call people Haters? Should we call them people that admire us but afraid to say it? Make sure to peep out other questions also comments are welcomed..
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 8:40am May 18
i was wondering about this the other day..ok so you looking fly and you calling a person a hater because they don't agree with the way you (dress, live your life, act, talk, etc) and you continue on to impress these "haters" to give them something to talk about and you go out your way to gain more haters???...i don't see the growth in that..the positivity...nor the point of it...i'm confused...you'll call me a hater because i think the dress you got on is not cute on you? fine...i'd say i'm a realist..lol on the other hand i guess a hater is someone that speaks the truth on how they feel about another person when they don't agree with them...lol...do i have haters? i don't know and really don't care...lmao
Paula Hatton at 8:59am May 18 via Facebook Mobile
Haters say things out of jealousy not because they care about the truth.
Patrick Covington at 9:05am May 18
OK TIME TO GET TIME ROLLING
Andrew DaPaparazzi Daley at 10:48am May 18
I never refer to them as haters....I call them my "fans"...lol
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 11:04am May 18 via Facebook Mobile
I look at people who hate as motivation. Do I think they admire me and just won't say anything, probably. . . ask me if I care. . . Hell No!
Jade Fox at 1:11pm May 18
When your actions are motivated by jealousy then youre a hater. If you look at someones clothes and they look like a hobo and you say "Wow, she looks trashy" then you are a realist. Now if you look at a gorgeous chick with a Hobo Louis Vuitton Bag and you know damn well that you like the purse but you cant afford anything that she has on and she wayyyyy prettier and all attention is on her yet youre snickering to your friends how her bag is too big and its not a real Louis then you're just a jealous hater.
GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 8:40am May 18
i was wondering about this the other day..ok so you looking fly and you calling a person a hater because they don't agree with the way you (dress, live your life, act, talk, etc) and you continue on to impress these "haters" to give them something to talk about and you go out your way to gain more haters???...i don't see the growth in that..the positivity...nor the point of it...i'm confused...you'll call me a hater because i think the dress you got on is not cute on you? fine...i'd say i'm a realist..lol on the other hand i guess a hater is someone that speaks the truth on how they feel about another person when they don't agree with them...lol...do i have haters? i don't know and really don't care...lmao
Paula Hatton at 8:59am May 18 via Facebook Mobile
Haters say things out of jealousy not because they care about the truth.
Patrick Covington at 9:05am May 18
OK TIME TO GET TIME ROLLING
Andrew DaPaparazzi Daley at 10:48am May 18
I never refer to them as haters....I call them my "fans"...lol
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 11:04am May 18 via Facebook Mobile
I look at people who hate as motivation. Do I think they admire me and just won't say anything, probably. . . ask me if I care. . . Hell No!
Jade Fox at 1:11pm May 18
When your actions are motivated by jealousy then youre a hater. If you look at someones clothes and they look like a hobo and you say "Wow, she looks trashy" then you are a realist. Now if you look at a gorgeous chick with a Hobo Louis Vuitton Bag and you know damn well that you like the purse but you cant afford anything that she has on and she wayyyyy prettier and all attention is on her yet youre snickering to your friends how her bag is too big and its not a real Louis then you're just a jealous hater.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
WHY SO FAST
Patrick Covington is asking multi questions of the day! Why do men so quickly go down on women when they don’t know jack about them. Lets have grown folk talk not for the kiddies lol.
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Ashley Shenett at 2:37pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
ooooh thats a good question. i think sum men think doin it will make the woman like em more.
Paula Hatton at 2:46pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
That's a good question!! Hell why do they need to broadcast it when they 1st meet you...that ish aint cute!!
Patrick Covington at 2:49pm May 12
Yeah I ate lil momma out blah blah.. I would be like did you inspect her make sure it is nothing going on.. In ten mins I am going to tell you all a story.
Ebony Luckett at 2:49pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
its really not an it also makes you question who else are you "offering" this treatment to?
Ashley Shenett at 2:50pm May 12
i agree.... cuz i would be like damn if he eatin me this soon, it aint no tellin how many others he eatin. and thats sooooo not cute
Danyiel Brown at 2:56pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Some men jus love doing dat shit. U got some women who r jus too fly dat it makes a man wanna use all 5 of his senses on her. But Im wit u this time Pat dat shyt aint cool. Yo mouth is one of da nastiest parts of da body, so women shouldnt even consider lettn a nigga put his nasty ass saliva on yo va j j. Eeew maybe its jus me this go round.
Rashida R. Jones at 3:07pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Patrick has asked me to inform you all that FB has blocked him from logging on. Quite funny I must say - no freedom of speech or either the hatas have been present. No telling these days...
Clarissa Purifoy at 3:11pm May 12
^^what???
Nikia West at 3:16pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
That's ridiculous if they didn't want to read it they should have deleted him as a friend.
Ashley Shenett at 3:17pm May 12
omg! thats terrible.
Carmen Renee at 3:19pm May 12
WTF ARE U SERIOUS RAH J.... SOME MEN JUST LIKE TO DO AND WHEN THEY ASK ME IF THEY CAN AND THATS ALL THEY WANT TO DO I WALK OFF
Patrick Covington at 3:21pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Ok I can log on phone again but not on system, I guess one of the quick kitty eaters told on me lol. I don't think you should let every dude run down there and infect your goods! Dudes try winning over women by eating them out I hear dudes begging women just to give them some head!
CheeChee Msdoing Myownthang at 3:22pm May 12
same reason women go down on men they don't know jack about...cuz they freaky as hell and they just like doin the shit.
Rashida R. Jones at 3:23pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
There he is!!!! Lol
Patrick Covington at 3:31pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Someone hating on me! Lol its cool I love it makes me come with something more raw! Like I said men brag about eating cat I am going to tell this story my boy met a chick one day took her home kissing her and rub his hand there took panties off going to kiss looked and green stuff was coming out of her and knots, he like bitch what is that she said I don't know he kicked her out his second story window said his folks where coming! Like wow wee nasty!
Patrick Covington at 3:36pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
I might miss some words on my blackberry can't log into system I am being blocked not sure why but keep talking lol
Nikia West at 3:49pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
That's some nasty ass shit but that's exactly what he gets too quick to take a bitch home. Men should appreciate that the time it takes to get to know a woman that way he can tell if its worth the risk because there's always a risk.
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Ashley Shenett at 2:37pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
ooooh thats a good question. i think sum men think doin it will make the woman like em more.
Paula Hatton at 2:46pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
That's a good question!! Hell why do they need to broadcast it when they 1st meet you...that ish aint cute!!
Patrick Covington at 2:49pm May 12
Yeah I ate lil momma out blah blah.. I would be like did you inspect her make sure it is nothing going on.. In ten mins I am going to tell you all a story.
Ebony Luckett at 2:49pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
its really not an it also makes you question who else are you "offering" this treatment to?
Ashley Shenett at 2:50pm May 12
i agree.... cuz i would be like damn if he eatin me this soon, it aint no tellin how many others he eatin. and thats sooooo not cute
Danyiel Brown at 2:56pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Some men jus love doing dat shit. U got some women who r jus too fly dat it makes a man wanna use all 5 of his senses on her. But Im wit u this time Pat dat shyt aint cool. Yo mouth is one of da nastiest parts of da body, so women shouldnt even consider lettn a nigga put his nasty ass saliva on yo va j j. Eeew maybe its jus me this go round.
Rashida R. Jones at 3:07pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Patrick has asked me to inform you all that FB has blocked him from logging on. Quite funny I must say - no freedom of speech or either the hatas have been present. No telling these days...
Clarissa Purifoy at 3:11pm May 12
^^what???
Nikia West at 3:16pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
That's ridiculous if they didn't want to read it they should have deleted him as a friend.
Ashley Shenett at 3:17pm May 12
omg! thats terrible.
Carmen Renee at 3:19pm May 12
WTF ARE U SERIOUS RAH J.... SOME MEN JUST LIKE TO DO AND WHEN THEY ASK ME IF THEY CAN AND THATS ALL THEY WANT TO DO I WALK OFF
Patrick Covington at 3:21pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Ok I can log on phone again but not on system, I guess one of the quick kitty eaters told on me lol. I don't think you should let every dude run down there and infect your goods! Dudes try winning over women by eating them out I hear dudes begging women just to give them some head!
CheeChee Msdoing Myownthang at 3:22pm May 12
same reason women go down on men they don't know jack about...cuz they freaky as hell and they just like doin the shit.
Rashida R. Jones at 3:23pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
There he is!!!! Lol
Patrick Covington at 3:31pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Someone hating on me! Lol its cool I love it makes me come with something more raw! Like I said men brag about eating cat I am going to tell this story my boy met a chick one day took her home kissing her and rub his hand there took panties off going to kiss looked and green stuff was coming out of her and knots, he like bitch what is that she said I don't know he kicked her out his second story window said his folks where coming! Like wow wee nasty!
Patrick Covington at 3:36pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
I might miss some words on my blackberry can't log into system I am being blocked not sure why but keep talking lol
Nikia West at 3:49pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
That's some nasty ass shit but that's exactly what he gets too quick to take a bitch home. Men should appreciate that the time it takes to get to know a woman that way he can tell if its worth the risk because there's always a risk.
The Kiss After Part2
Patrick Covington is asking multi questions of the day! WE HAVE TO REVISIT THIS ONE!! MEN PLEASE JUMP IN, Do you kiss after giving (H) to your mate? Also men if she got a little nut on the lips what you do? Ladies say kiss it and keep it moving. But that just seem so wrong to me lol..
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Chiquita Spears at 12:51pm May 12
Pat you are stuck on this one you see the men scared to comment cause they sitting there thinking *damn I think Ive done that shit before* they didnt think about it when they did it but now you got them thinking....lol
Bri Hatchett at 12:52pm May 12
ROTFLMAO!!!
Nell Lester at 12:52pm May 12
so Pat, would you if kiss her after she got some on her lip?
DJ Joker at 12:58pm May 12
Damn. Pat. You a fool... I can't even comment on this one..
Audria Nubia Arnold at 12:59pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Pat has already said no and I really can't believe he revisted this question after being slammed... LMAO
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:04pm May 12
Ima try to help out by repostin my comment frm below.
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:04pm May 12
I'll kiss my girl after she gives me head. Especially if it's fiyah, afterwards i hav to kiss her, bite her, or sumthin. As for the ladies, they should like how they taste. I've had a girl suck my tongue afterwards, tht shit was hot. But when it comes to kissin a young lady that got my nut on her lip, I can't do it. I see ladies above sayin to wipe it off will mess up the mood, but if i kiss u wit my nut on ur lip.. tht's gonna fuck it up for me. Lol.
Patrick Covington at 1:04pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Hell these dudes better talk! I am going to get the towel and clean it off. Women don't mind sucking and kissing their juices. But now I am wondering dudes have lips their chicks lip that is not right lol!!!
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:09pm May 12
^ Pat, I think u said it best. It proly ain't a lady on here tht don't kno wht they taste like.
Paula Hatton at 1:10pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Awwwwww not you Mr...We grown...It's 2009...We some freaks...It's one of those love thangs...not some random ass person off tha street. When you find the one you supposed to be with...all these questions...peeing in the shower...gas during sex will not matter.
Marlon Verner at 1:15pm May 12
HAhaaha nice ?? I cant do it. I would sit an look at her. AN be like baby gurl be real an go get the towel .Then after she wipe her face i would have to think about it!!!
Patrick Covington at 1:20pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Paula yeah I can take the poot,pee and a lot but not the nut on the lips and licking it off!
Paula Hatton at 1:21pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
See Marlon, that's how you treat a jump off...lololol
Charlisha Price at 1:21pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
you are a mess! LMAO!
Paula Hatton at 1:22pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
LoLoLoL yall funny!!
Kerstin Taylor at 1:23pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
men i need u all 2 watch sex and the city....a man actually tasted his spunk b/c he wanted some (h) but she said his spunk was funky..... i don't mind tasting my juices & my dude don't mind tasting his spunk. besides, men do have pre-cum and we suck & come kiss u, what do u think u b tasting anyway?
Charlisha Price at 1:25pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Truthfully, I may get turned off by him tasting himself..
Paula Hatton at 1:25pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Tell em Kerstin!!!
Carmen Renee at 1:27pm May 12
I TASTE GOOD!! JAMES U DA SHIT !!!
Paula Hatton at 1:28pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
What about the men that give (H) after they've (N'd)...
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 1:29pm May 12
i have kissed her with nut still there but she wasn't just one of my conquests. that's some dedication. alot of women have tatsed themselves on my lips or my cheek or everywhere else.
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:30pm May 12
Charlisha u should b. Lol. And lol at Carmen.
Patrick Covington at 1:33pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
I mean come on if she cums while I am there yeah we kissing I need her to taste it hell that is passion. But if I nutted and hanging off her lip she can't say come catch this nut pooh, it is ummmm good, hell to the no!
Charlisha Price at 1:35pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
I agree Kersten but after taste from my mouth is different than clearly seeing it and licking it like ice cream..
Carmen Renee at 1:43pm May 12
AWW PC U HAVE MADE MY DAY... OK LADIES YALL SAY U WANT LICK AFTER IF ITS JUST HANGING THERE THAN WAHTS THE DIFFRENCE WHEN U SWALLOW..IT S RUSHING INTO UR MOUTH BUT U CANT SEE IT SO U SWALLOW IT
Paula Hatton at 1:52pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Not hanging...I'm not letting shit hang from my face...But merely present...
Carmen Renee at 1:53pm May 12
PAULA I AHVE TO AGREE THAT GROSS HANGING OFF THE FACE PERIOD OR IN THE FACE.. NO SPLOOGE IN THE BEAUTY ZONE
Patrick Covington at 2:02pm May 12
present.. I mean come on nut and and man kiss it off don't that seem extreme. I mess around and get pregnant..
Patrick Covington at 2:03pm May 12
now the dudes damn mute again.. Hell no I am not going to get beat two times
Collis Parham at 2:03pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
yeah brah,thats a tough pill 2 swallow....
James 'Jp' Phillips at 2:07pm May 12
tht's a gift she can keep.
Patrick Covington at 2:08pm May 12
Now I say again.. I am not going to go to restroom and jack off and say damn lil nut on my hand let me taste this ok ok good. She can suck it now I am good! so if your man suck your tongue dry after he nut in your mouth then that is normal huh? Answer that lol
Carmen Renee at 2:09pm May 12
CTFU CTFU
Collis Parham at 2:13pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
not normal by a long f#@kin' shot...but 2 each its own
Adrianne Owens at 2:17pm May 12
this is too funny to me! some of you women act like you've never been in the situation and some of you men just don't want your boys to know. Don't front-keep it real! We all grown! There is no difference from me giving you (H) and you kissing me or you asking to swallow and kissing me afterwards. In the heat of the moment-most guys don't even think about the shit.........they just do it like NIKE!
Patrick Covington at 2:19pm May 12
Each to those own then we moving on.. Because I can't see nut and me be like mikey he will eat anything. NO. I am not up to speed with that.. Next you know women be like lick this nut off my cheek you left.. You all know how to get cocky with it. New question coming in 5mins
Marlon Verner at 2:24pm May 12
now u goin back to last week if he do that she need to ?? his manhood?? he might be trap in the cloest an want to come out
Patrick Covington at 2:24pm May 12
When you all finish I am honest about licking my nut off my chick lip. Now I know these dudes in 09 will suck the food out your ass and all this new shit but hell that is too much for me.. I can't see it lol. Just me can't speak for everyone.
Danyiel Brown at 2:33pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
OMG!!!!! R yall still on this one simple ass question?
Patrick Covington at 2:37pm May 12
Danyiel I could not let it go I didn't have any men backing up I brought a team and still got ass kicked.
Paula Hatton at 2:44pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
too funny!!!
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Chiquita Spears at 12:51pm May 12
Pat you are stuck on this one you see the men scared to comment cause they sitting there thinking *damn I think Ive done that shit before* they didnt think about it when they did it but now you got them thinking....lol
Bri Hatchett at 12:52pm May 12
ROTFLMAO!!!
Nell Lester at 12:52pm May 12
so Pat, would you if kiss her after she got some on her lip?
DJ Joker at 12:58pm May 12
Damn. Pat. You a fool... I can't even comment on this one..
Audria Nubia Arnold at 12:59pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Pat has already said no and I really can't believe he revisted this question after being slammed... LMAO
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:04pm May 12
Ima try to help out by repostin my comment frm below.
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:04pm May 12
I'll kiss my girl after she gives me head. Especially if it's fiyah, afterwards i hav to kiss her, bite her, or sumthin. As for the ladies, they should like how they taste. I've had a girl suck my tongue afterwards, tht shit was hot. But when it comes to kissin a young lady that got my nut on her lip, I can't do it. I see ladies above sayin to wipe it off will mess up the mood, but if i kiss u wit my nut on ur lip.. tht's gonna fuck it up for me. Lol.
Patrick Covington at 1:04pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Hell these dudes better talk! I am going to get the towel and clean it off. Women don't mind sucking and kissing their juices. But now I am wondering dudes have lips their chicks lip that is not right lol!!!
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:09pm May 12
^ Pat, I think u said it best. It proly ain't a lady on here tht don't kno wht they taste like.
Paula Hatton at 1:10pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Awwwwww not you Mr...We grown...It's 2009...We some freaks...It's one of those love thangs...not some random ass person off tha street. When you find the one you supposed to be with...all these questions...peeing in the shower...gas during sex will not matter.
Marlon Verner at 1:15pm May 12
HAhaaha nice ?? I cant do it. I would sit an look at her. AN be like baby gurl be real an go get the towel .Then after she wipe her face i would have to think about it!!!
Patrick Covington at 1:20pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Paula yeah I can take the poot,pee and a lot but not the nut on the lips and licking it off!
Paula Hatton at 1:21pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
See Marlon, that's how you treat a jump off...lololol
Charlisha Price at 1:21pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
you are a mess! LMAO!
Paula Hatton at 1:22pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
LoLoLoL yall funny!!
Kerstin Taylor at 1:23pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
men i need u all 2 watch sex and the city....a man actually tasted his spunk b/c he wanted some (h) but she said his spunk was funky..... i don't mind tasting my juices & my dude don't mind tasting his spunk. besides, men do have pre-cum and we suck & come kiss u, what do u think u b tasting anyway?
Charlisha Price at 1:25pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Truthfully, I may get turned off by him tasting himself..
Paula Hatton at 1:25pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Tell em Kerstin!!!
Carmen Renee at 1:27pm May 12
I TASTE GOOD!! JAMES U DA SHIT !!!
Paula Hatton at 1:28pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
What about the men that give (H) after they've (N'd)...
Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 1:29pm May 12
i have kissed her with nut still there but she wasn't just one of my conquests. that's some dedication. alot of women have tatsed themselves on my lips or my cheek or everywhere else.
James 'Jp' Phillips at 1:30pm May 12
Charlisha u should b. Lol. And lol at Carmen.
Patrick Covington at 1:33pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
I mean come on if she cums while I am there yeah we kissing I need her to taste it hell that is passion. But if I nutted and hanging off her lip she can't say come catch this nut pooh, it is ummmm good, hell to the no!
Charlisha Price at 1:35pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
I agree Kersten but after taste from my mouth is different than clearly seeing it and licking it like ice cream..
Carmen Renee at 1:43pm May 12
AWW PC U HAVE MADE MY DAY... OK LADIES YALL SAY U WANT LICK AFTER IF ITS JUST HANGING THERE THAN WAHTS THE DIFFRENCE WHEN U SWALLOW..IT S RUSHING INTO UR MOUTH BUT U CANT SEE IT SO U SWALLOW IT
Paula Hatton at 1:52pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
Not hanging...I'm not letting shit hang from my face...But merely present...
Carmen Renee at 1:53pm May 12
PAULA I AHVE TO AGREE THAT GROSS HANGING OFF THE FACE PERIOD OR IN THE FACE.. NO SPLOOGE IN THE BEAUTY ZONE
Patrick Covington at 2:02pm May 12
present.. I mean come on nut and and man kiss it off don't that seem extreme. I mess around and get pregnant..
Patrick Covington at 2:03pm May 12
now the dudes damn mute again.. Hell no I am not going to get beat two times
Collis Parham at 2:03pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
yeah brah,thats a tough pill 2 swallow....
James 'Jp' Phillips at 2:07pm May 12
tht's a gift she can keep.
Patrick Covington at 2:08pm May 12
Now I say again.. I am not going to go to restroom and jack off and say damn lil nut on my hand let me taste this ok ok good. She can suck it now I am good! so if your man suck your tongue dry after he nut in your mouth then that is normal huh? Answer that lol
Carmen Renee at 2:09pm May 12
CTFU CTFU
Collis Parham at 2:13pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
not normal by a long f#@kin' shot...but 2 each its own
Adrianne Owens at 2:17pm May 12
this is too funny to me! some of you women act like you've never been in the situation and some of you men just don't want your boys to know. Don't front-keep it real! We all grown! There is no difference from me giving you (H) and you kissing me or you asking to swallow and kissing me afterwards. In the heat of the moment-most guys don't even think about the shit.........they just do it like NIKE!
Patrick Covington at 2:19pm May 12
Each to those own then we moving on.. Because I can't see nut and me be like mikey he will eat anything. NO. I am not up to speed with that.. Next you know women be like lick this nut off my cheek you left.. You all know how to get cocky with it. New question coming in 5mins
Marlon Verner at 2:24pm May 12
now u goin back to last week if he do that she need to ?? his manhood?? he might be trap in the cloest an want to come out
Patrick Covington at 2:24pm May 12
When you all finish I am honest about licking my nut off my chick lip. Now I know these dudes in 09 will suck the food out your ass and all this new shit but hell that is too much for me.. I can't see it lol. Just me can't speak for everyone.
Danyiel Brown at 2:33pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
OMG!!!!! R yall still on this one simple ass question?
Patrick Covington at 2:37pm May 12
Danyiel I could not let it go I didn't have any men backing up I brought a team and still got ass kicked.
Paula Hatton at 2:44pm May 12 via Facebook Mobile
too funny!!!
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