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Monday, February 16, 2009
Time For Change
I think I am going to change it up and give you something different. I am in the late night hours thinking about something is missing in life. I think more and more people are settling for the smaller things in life than the most important thing that makes the world revolve. Which is Love! We keep allowing ourselves to be cheated in life, be it our relationships, jobs, family and most important with GOD. We keep putting things in front of us that hold no value. We are at a point in life where we need to see the benefits in what and how we do things. We can't keep walking through life with this hope factor.
We need to love what we do and how we do it and be the best at it. Stop trying to handles fights that we know we can't win! We need to be more dependent on GOD and not our own judgment which at times can be worthless. Most of us are weak to a lot of things and get so far caught up and so far gone until we completely lose all sense of living and being the best we can be. This comes from years of abuse to our minds and souls, we begin to settle for the little things and small rewards until we miss the grand prize sitting right in front of us. I am taking a stand today and challenge everyone that read this to tell someone you Love them today. People are so afraid to say they love someone until the world is becoming full of hate.
Ask yourself this once you meet God what will your story be? Is it worth listening to, did you try everything you could in life. Stop looking at the now in life and look at where you want to be five years from now. Also think about if you die tonight what will your story be to. Like always pass the link this might help someone that needs to be lifted. If you got something from this leave a comment. It is time we take control of things that surround us.
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Friday, February 13, 2009
Truth vs Lie
What up family I am back for a quick second shooting you something new and interesting. First, let me thank everyone for their support this month I have received mad love. This blog today is titled Truth vs Lie. This is something to think about and share with everyone.
Doing a little research on a couple of new things these past couple of weeks and would like to share it. Why is it that we lie to each other about simple things that can affect a relationship for a lifetime? A lie can damage the mental and physical relationship of the persons involved. The question is why do we lie? Is it to protect yourself, the other party, games, or just afraid of the outcome? I guess it is a combination of all things to protect you from being left in a relationship or being looked at in a bad way. Or are you trying to protect the other person thinking you are saving them from hurt and pain? Are you just playing games to see how far you can carry the lie?
People tell lies to cover the truth about a minor or serious situation. Most men and women that cheat, tell lies to protect their current relationship status being things are moving well or bad. I feel if you cheat and can tell the other party that you are dating/dealing with someone else and you give them options to decide if they want to stay or leave, why not give that to the person that you are hiding the truth from. Give them an option to decide if they want to stay or leave. If you give the other party that much respect you should be able to give the one you have been dealing with the same. Leave a person an option to do what they need to do. Most relationships fail because of the trust issue not because you are not loving the person right or giving them what they need. Most people can feel when the other party is lying. When bonded with another person your souls feel certain things. Family, a lie is a lie no matter how big or small. It can cripple everything you work for.
Telling the truth can change a lot of the outcomes. Most people can get over certain things a lot faster with the truth. Truth shows bravery, loyalty and respect for the other party. It can open up new doors you thought were never going to be open and it gives you a sense of freedom. I know 7 out of 10 people cheat on their spouse or have some type of relationship with the opposite sex or the same. You wonder why your life is shitty and things always seem to happen to you, it is because you are creating bad Karma. Be honest, take the time to just to clear your mind and heart of all the lies you have created and will potentially create. The first thing is to stop doing wrong, telling the truth without changing the situation only causes more lies. Come clean about your wrongdoing regardless of how bad it will hurt or even if the person leaves you. You will have a clean soul and you can rebuild within yourself. Most importantly you give the other party an option to rebuild with you or leave it alone.
Last a lie can destroy a business relationship! Most of us put our trust in other people when it comes to our careers and moving ahead in life. If a person leads you in the wrong direction or misinform you, it can be a disastrous end. You put more faith in these people because of their experience and understanding of business. Being whatever your profession is, you should always have a clear understanding with others about business that concerns both parties. Loyalty is the key to all this and will hold together a personal relationship. Everyone tells a lie every once in a while but be big enough to tell the truth once it hits the fan and you are confronted with it. I need to end this blog because there is so much more to talk about on this matter. Being honest is hard to do and I understand. The key to doing it is not to get tangled up in the lie the first place. It can damage your relationships, marriages and life. You just don’t know how the other party will proceed until you are honest. Keep that in mind and also remember one lie constitutes another lie and the cycle begins.
Ladies and Gentlemen don’t accept a lie being you love a person or trying to work something out. It only leads to more problems and trust me the issue will worsen in time.
Everyone needs to learn how to talk and discuss issues without fighting and cursing. Be open and even though you are hurt thank the other party for being honest and now you need to decide what you want to do with it.
I hope this reaches someone and open a couple of doors in your life. Pass this information to someone else. We, as a people, need to spread truth and stop spreading lies and material that only causes more drama in our lives. Let’s clean up for the remainder of this year and start 2009 with being honest with yourself and others.
Doing a little research on a couple of new things these past couple of weeks and would like to share it. Why is it that we lie to each other about simple things that can affect a relationship for a lifetime? A lie can damage the mental and physical relationship of the persons involved. The question is why do we lie? Is it to protect yourself, the other party, games, or just afraid of the outcome? I guess it is a combination of all things to protect you from being left in a relationship or being looked at in a bad way. Or are you trying to protect the other person thinking you are saving them from hurt and pain? Are you just playing games to see how far you can carry the lie?
People tell lies to cover the truth about a minor or serious situation. Most men and women that cheat, tell lies to protect their current relationship status being things are moving well or bad. I feel if you cheat and can tell the other party that you are dating/dealing with someone else and you give them options to decide if they want to stay or leave, why not give that to the person that you are hiding the truth from. Give them an option to decide if they want to stay or leave. If you give the other party that much respect you should be able to give the one you have been dealing with the same. Leave a person an option to do what they need to do. Most relationships fail because of the trust issue not because you are not loving the person right or giving them what they need. Most people can feel when the other party is lying. When bonded with another person your souls feel certain things. Family, a lie is a lie no matter how big or small. It can cripple everything you work for.
Telling the truth can change a lot of the outcomes. Most people can get over certain things a lot faster with the truth. Truth shows bravery, loyalty and respect for the other party. It can open up new doors you thought were never going to be open and it gives you a sense of freedom. I know 7 out of 10 people cheat on their spouse or have some type of relationship with the opposite sex or the same. You wonder why your life is shitty and things always seem to happen to you, it is because you are creating bad Karma. Be honest, take the time to just to clear your mind and heart of all the lies you have created and will potentially create. The first thing is to stop doing wrong, telling the truth without changing the situation only causes more lies. Come clean about your wrongdoing regardless of how bad it will hurt or even if the person leaves you. You will have a clean soul and you can rebuild within yourself. Most importantly you give the other party an option to rebuild with you or leave it alone.
Last a lie can destroy a business relationship! Most of us put our trust in other people when it comes to our careers and moving ahead in life. If a person leads you in the wrong direction or misinform you, it can be a disastrous end. You put more faith in these people because of their experience and understanding of business. Being whatever your profession is, you should always have a clear understanding with others about business that concerns both parties. Loyalty is the key to all this and will hold together a personal relationship. Everyone tells a lie every once in a while but be big enough to tell the truth once it hits the fan and you are confronted with it. I need to end this blog because there is so much more to talk about on this matter. Being honest is hard to do and I understand. The key to doing it is not to get tangled up in the lie the first place. It can damage your relationships, marriages and life. You just don’t know how the other party will proceed until you are honest. Keep that in mind and also remember one lie constitutes another lie and the cycle begins.
Ladies and Gentlemen don’t accept a lie being you love a person or trying to work something out. It only leads to more problems and trust me the issue will worsen in time.
Everyone needs to learn how to talk and discuss issues without fighting and cursing. Be open and even though you are hurt thank the other party for being honest and now you need to decide what you want to do with it.
I hope this reaches someone and open a couple of doors in your life. Pass this information to someone else. We, as a people, need to spread truth and stop spreading lies and material that only causes more drama in our lives. Let’s clean up for the remainder of this year and start 2009 with being honest with yourself and others.
Self Esteem
Today is a new day with a new situation that presents itself. I want to talk about self-esteem most people don’t know the definition: 1. A realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect. I want to talk about why we lack the respect for ourselves. Some people who date and might experience hardships in the relationship, being called stupid, ugly and other names they tend to have low self-esteem. If a man or woman disrespects you on a constant basis it is time for you to find new avenues to venture. I believe there is no need to stick around and take verbal abuse from someone that claims to love you. You need to understand a man or woman is only as good as their mate. So if you are stupid and dumb what does that make the other party? Think about it they are dating you so that makes them stupid and dumb for being with you and they must have a complex problem. If they could do better why have they not left why are they holding on to you. Because they know they can’t find anyone better than you and if they do they will be running back to your door soon.
Low self-esteem causes a lot of problems in our lives. It can create anxiety, stress, loneliness and increase likelihood for depression. If you decide to breakup with someone or if they leave you, take time to think about what happened and why it happened. DON’T TRY TO GET EVEN. That only hurts you more. Take the time to heal and realize that you are a beautiful person inside and out. Never let anyone tell you that you are less than your worth. I think it is better that you leave before you end up hurting yourself seriously.
Low self-esteem causes a lot of problems in our lives. It can create anxiety, stress, loneliness and increase likelihood for depression. If you decide to breakup with someone or if they leave you, take time to think about what happened and why it happened. DON’T TRY TO GET EVEN. That only hurts you more. Take the time to heal and realize that you are a beautiful person inside and out. Never let anyone tell you that you are less than your worth. I think it is better that you leave before you end up hurting yourself seriously.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
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Friday, February 6, 2009
A good thing gone bad!
Have you ever been in a relationship and everything is going perfect no complaints, no misunderstandings, and mad love? Then things turn and not in your favor. The time spent lessens and I love you become fewer and fewer. The little things once mad you feel like this was the one that completed your heart are now hurting your heart. When family and friends become more important than a nice quiet dinner for two. We have all experienced it and have been hurt by it.
You begin to question yourself and your abilities to love and keep that someone close. You start blaming yourself for little things and try to see how to fix the situation. You try harder but to only find yourself more frustrated and being pushed away even further. Then you ask yourself what I have done wrong. You love like no other has loved in your eyes. You wonder are they seeing someone else, have they lost interest or is life beating them up and you just caught between enemy lines.
You search for answers and you find out more and more that they don’t want to talk and the timing is not right. You scramble to gain control on your feelings and heart because you been down this path before and you are trying to avoid the hurt and pain that comes with this. You can’t just walk away because the human mind and soul wants an answer to what has gone wrong. Then you notice they are cutting you deeper and deeper words of encouragement become words on negative stabs to your heart. Like any human with a heart knows you automatically go into defensive mode.
This mode protects the last little bit you have before the brink of the breakdown. All your hopes and aspirations are being destroyed and you become angry and confused. You feel like you at least deserve an answer to what went wrong and how to correct it.
So I ask you this question before you move any further. Did you have a clear understanding what you were before you began your journey. Were you just a F-buddy, a sideline person until the other person got their things in order, just a nice person that cared and hang with, where you ever public acknowledge as theirs? I believe if you don’t have an understanding of what you are and who you are there is going to be an issue.
People are not looking for love anymore they are looking for a temporary place to lay their head and when they find a more comfortable place FOR THEM they move on. You are left cleaning us the mess of the houseguest. Love hurts and can damage a good person but just like anything else in life you have to keep your head up and trust Almighty is going to handle them on the down the road. Do all you can do to be the best you can be and the rest will be handled. If a person can’t love and respect you with all their heart and soul they were not for you in the beginning. You just caught up in the hope that you might have found the person that makes your soul warm in the inside.
You begin to question yourself and your abilities to love and keep that someone close. You start blaming yourself for little things and try to see how to fix the situation. You try harder but to only find yourself more frustrated and being pushed away even further. Then you ask yourself what I have done wrong. You love like no other has loved in your eyes. You wonder are they seeing someone else, have they lost interest or is life beating them up and you just caught between enemy lines.
You search for answers and you find out more and more that they don’t want to talk and the timing is not right. You scramble to gain control on your feelings and heart because you been down this path before and you are trying to avoid the hurt and pain that comes with this. You can’t just walk away because the human mind and soul wants an answer to what has gone wrong. Then you notice they are cutting you deeper and deeper words of encouragement become words on negative stabs to your heart. Like any human with a heart knows you automatically go into defensive mode.
This mode protects the last little bit you have before the brink of the breakdown. All your hopes and aspirations are being destroyed and you become angry and confused. You feel like you at least deserve an answer to what went wrong and how to correct it.
So I ask you this question before you move any further. Did you have a clear understanding what you were before you began your journey. Were you just a F-buddy, a sideline person until the other person got their things in order, just a nice person that cared and hang with, where you ever public acknowledge as theirs? I believe if you don’t have an understanding of what you are and who you are there is going to be an issue.
People are not looking for love anymore they are looking for a temporary place to lay their head and when they find a more comfortable place FOR THEM they move on. You are left cleaning us the mess of the houseguest. Love hurts and can damage a good person but just like anything else in life you have to keep your head up and trust Almighty is going to handle them on the down the road. Do all you can do to be the best you can be and the rest will be handled. If a person can’t love and respect you with all their heart and soul they were not for you in the beginning. You just caught up in the hope that you might have found the person that makes your soul warm in the inside.
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