Patrick Covington is asking questions of the day, LADIES what is it that you don't understand about men? I think I have enough men on my list that can help you answer and if they are too afraid I surely will tell you the truth. Let's talk fam..
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Chiquita Spears at 9:13am July 13
why is it that when men get what they ask for (time, sex. etc..) it's still not enough?
Cynthia Perkins at 9:13am July 13
Why is it that MEN always pass up the intelligent classy women and go and get some trashy maggot ass hoe that aint got nothing going for herself?
Tia Canada at 9:15am July 13
WHY DO MEN ASK FOR COMPLETE HONESTY FROM A WOMAN BUT WILL NOT OR JUST WONT GIVE THE SAME IN RETURN?
AlexsSandra Monique at 9:15am July 13
Why do men like to hang with their friends more than they girl.
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 9:16am July 13
No fear here brotha (now BACK to the LADIES)
Ashli Clanton at 9:20am July 13
Why is it that men have a hard time communicating what they want out of a relationship and also what @cynthia said, why do they pass up an intelligent attractive woman wiht goals and a good career or possible career if she is still in school for the trailer part trash type of girl?
Tamika Culp-Gales at 9:21am July 13
Why do men risk their reationships, family, and health by going out and cheating? Do they really think that its worth the risk?
Patrick Covington at 9:22am July 13
@Chiquita Because most men don't know what they want because they have not found themselves@Cynthia you don't have to be locked down with a HOE you can treat a hoe anyway you like but you treat a real woman with respect and most men aint ready because they don't respect who they are.@Tia men play mind games to control a woman with tell me all and I tell you nothing! communication is key and most don't have it.@AlexsSandra Because they don't value you what they have or they are bored with you or you don't share same interest.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:22am July 13
I feel like shoutin up in hea at all these good questions being asked! PREACH sistas! Ashli I am dying to hear what the brothas have to say!
Qiana Nichol H at 9:22am July 13
Why do some men ISH where they eat? I'll explain if needed
Candice Grose at 9:23am July 13
Better yet, 2 piggy back off of Cynthia, why are men intimidated by a young single woman, who has her own, no children, not gold digging, in executive positions? I've had a guy 2 tell me all of that is too much 4 him & he couldn't date me, and to me, that's not a good rerason
Qiana Nichol H at 9:27am July 13
Please answer AlexsSandra Monique, I have that question too
Cynthia Perkins at 9:27am July 13
Piggy backin off of Candice... They go and get the ones with seven kids and eight baby daddys! No job no nothin...
Patrick Covington at 9:27am July 13
@To all that ask question about passing a good woman up.. A lot of men don't know who they are so they can't know who you are! It is much easy to fuck a dirty hoe and you don't have to be locked down.. But a real Woman going to have standards that need to be met! Most men are still boys and have not reached a level of saying I know what I want out of life and I am willing to be with one to achieve that.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:28am July 13
Pat you need to school these men out here seriously.
Patrick Covington at 9:29am July 13
@Qiana simple answer some men are like pigs they love slop. Most like complex shit and get in messed up situation and then have to lie out of it
Timothy Dorsey at 9:29am July 13
Candice, we don't come by women like you often. That is change for most men. Change is new and most do not accept change. He just didn't understand how to deal with you.
Timothy Dorsey at 9:30am July 13
Cynthia. PC doesn't need to teach them. A man has to find himself.
Patrick Covington at 9:32am July 13
@ TO ALL ASKED ABOUT WHY THEY HANG... Because you are boring your interest don't match and they are not ready to value what they have.. When I found a good woman I cut off shit hanging out soo much so I knew my woman knew I valued her!
Terrell E. Jones at 9:33am July 13
I am baaack...@Chaquita Don't give him everything and make him want more. Me being the man that I am only thing I want from a woman is honesty. If she can be completly honest with me it is okay.@Cynthia They are boys not men... See what they have going for themselves and that is what they are usually attracted to @ Tia Make sure the honesty is a two way street. You cannot get what you do not give...@Alex They are gay!!!Need more? Will answer other questions soon!!!!
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:34am July 13
what i dont understand is , how you can date someone for years (2-3) and everything is cool, we have an arguement from time to time but who doesn't? then all of a sudden you say your just not ready for a realtionship? but you don't want us to go too far? you keep us around and then seem to get a lil jealous once you see someone else is intrested? obviously I'm talking about myself...hehehehe
Patrick Covington at 9:35am July 13
@Tim a lot of men don't understand what is right from wrong and it take us real men to tell them that is some foul shit!! If my boy got a woman and I don't I will tell him dude you need to roll to the house to take care of your lady or the next dude will! So it is out job to help men who don't understand what they got..
Candice Grose at 9:35am July 13
@ Pat, lmaol " "they love slop" Thank you for your response Pat & Timothy...they actually makes sense...yall write a book 2gether
Qiana Nichol H at 9:35am July 13
(click) LIKE @ Terrell !!
Patrick Covington at 9:38am July 13
@Chassity Ohsopretty Acey THAT IS CALLED I NEED TO DO WHAT I WANT BUT I WANT YOU TO STAY PUT... EITHER YOU GIVE ME YOUR ALL OR YOU GIVE ME NONE... I WOULD BE ALL IN THE NEXT PERSON FACE TO MAKE YOUR ASS MAD AND SHOW YOU I WILL BE OK WITHOUT YOUR MF ASS. SO PICK ME OR THE STREET.... REAL TALK..
Terrell E. Jones at 9:40am July 13
@Tamika Men do not realize what they have until they have been through a little counseling... Church/Therapist/Momma... When they catch something one time or the fear of catching something will slow them down completely!!! That is what caught me up... I thought I had another kid on the way and I stopped for a while because CS for 1 is enough!!!.Men who attempt to get the girl with all the problems are not really men they are looking for someone to take care of them when it is convient for them... I have one child and will have to seriously think about dating women with 2 or more but we would have to be great friends first because I do not like to be introduced to children if I am not going to be in thier lives.
Schlundra Moore at 9:40am July 13
Why do men talk at you or just make statements instead of talking to you?
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:41am July 13
exactly what i thought, sounds better coming from a man though
Timothy Dorsey at 9:43am July 13
PC, I feel you on that. My circle of guy friends are ones who are faithful to their families. I strive not to associate with others that are not willing to step up and do what is right. I would let them know what is up. I was coming from the terms of a boy that claims to be a man.
Cynthia Perkins at 9:43am July 13
Ok I have another one. Me and several other friends of mine were talking about long distance relationships. I brought up my ex that lives in Puerto Rico. He had to migrate back because his granny had taken sick. This was some years back. Well how about somebody who happens to be a guy went back and told my dude? BUT get this...The guy that told my dude that mess always looks out for me and everything! He is really nice! Just like a big brother to me. Now me and my dude are not speaking because of this and old boy is now walking around here like he hasnt done anything wrong? So why in the hell would he do something like this? I really want a mans opinion on this.
Patrick Covington at 9:43am July 13
@Schlundra men have always been told to be a man and enforcer and a lot men didn't have real men in their house who taught them have to talk and we take the street talk into our homes. So we can't effectively communicate at times.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:46am July 13
Timothy D. i feel ya on that cuz he is damn near 30 , stilll clubs, hangs out wit his guys more than me and everything. Im just kinda fed up, wit the ish. i really liked him though loved him really :(
Timothy Dorsey at 9:47am July 13
Ms. Moore, men that talk like that could have hidden agendas.
Patrick Covington at 9:47am July 13
@Cynthia that is called a case of a bitch!! I dude that is afraid to say hey I am attractive to you I would love to date you but I am a coward! that is what I said last week about watching your friends because they will destroy you.
Patrick Covington at 9:49am July 13
@Chassity you might be setting yourself up for failure..
Terrell E. Jones at 9:50am July 13
@Schlundra Because some men realize that you will take the BS... Stop taking all the crap that they send out and stand firm on your decisions.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:50am July 13
I guess i just didnt want to think i wasted my time but obviously i did. oh well, Thanx yall
Timothy Dorsey at 9:51am July 13
Chassity, the question you should ask yourself, "Is he really interested in me?" No way a man should leave a woman behind that he really likes or loves. Going out with the guys now and then is cool but running the streets is not cool. Even if you are single.
Candice Grose at 9:52am July 13
I GOT A NEW ONE: WHY DO MEAN CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND WITH SUM1 WHO WILL DO WHAT HIS WIFE OR GIRL WONT DO IN BED? WHY NOT JUST ASK THEM OR TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE IN BED? WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR YOU TO APPROACH THE PERSON YOUR CREEPIN WITH ON WHAT YOU LIKE BUT ARE A COWARD WHN IT COMES TO YOUR OLE LADY? I ALWAYS HERE GUYS SAY, "SHE DOESN'T DO THIS OR THAT." WTF ARE YOU TELLING ME 4? TELL HER! REQUEST IT, PUT IT IN WRITING HELL!
Adrion Tyrell Jones-The AtJ-project at 9:53am July 13
Wow....at the questions posted above, all that I can say is that it is indeed a maturity level and indeed an issue of indidviduals TRULY knowing what they want for themselves and from their mates.I can't believe some of the people that we/y'all are comin' across out here.I am not sayin' that I am SUPER NEGRO or anything,but I feel confident that I am not at the level of some ao the brothas that the sistas are encountering.Obviously there are a bunch of little boys running around in their daddy's suit and shoes(oversized)pretending to be men...ladies are not exempt however.I know MANY that are still playing dress up as well.
Patrick Covington at 9:53am July 13
@Chassity now that is our thoughts you have to decide on what is best for you and your future lol.. Don't have your man running up talking about man you told her to leave me.. His ass going to be in for a shock lol
Vicskeyas Faith Moore at 9:53am July 13
Why is it so easy for men to mistreat a good woman but when she leaves, he realizes he screwed up and wants her back
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:53am July 13
I have asked him that, but of course he said no, but that has also crossed my mind, but when i distance myself he either calls and calls and calls, or pops up at my house, whats up wit that?
Terrell E. Jones at 9:54am July 13
@Cynthia That is a big case of Bitch Azzness!!! You need to whoop his ass ASAP!!! I still say you should not have did what you did but if that was your dude (just like one of your girls) he should not have said a word.
Chassity Ohsopretty Acey at 9:57am July 13
lol@ Pat, understood, but the things yall telling me has ran through my mind before so its about time for me to make a very firm decision
Patrick Covington at 9:58am July 13
@Vicsk, ChassityTHAT IS CALLED I NEED TO DO WHAT I WANT BUT I WANT YOU TO STAY PUT... @Candice men are afraid to teach they ole woman things.. If the oral aint right I will say hey let me show you how I need it done.. then men want to do new stuff but afraid to ask or if she say no they still want to explore... I blame both parties if she just say no
Terrell E. Jones at 10:02am July 13
@Candice I start out telling girls what I want and be completely honest before we have sex. So what you are saying is that you do not have a sex conversation before you have sex? You do not ask about STD's, HIV, or anything that will matter to you as in positions and stuff like that?
Patrick Covington at 10:05am July 13
@terrell this is what guys bring to her I think.. I am not messing with a married chick to teach her new tricks to take home to the hubby lol myself.
Terrell E. Jones at 10:05am July 13
I have asked a lot of questions and have had a female tell me that she does not give oral but like to have it done to her... Needless to say that was out last date becuase I told her "I do not want it everyday but I would like to have it at least once a week" She said no and not even for her husband!!! I told her, that is the reason why you are 35 and still looking for a man...
Patrick Covington at 10:13am July 13
Gentlemen, what are some of the characteristics women portray that are intimidating to men? FROM A FB PPL
Cynthia Perkins at 10:14am July 13
Pat & Terrell - You both are so right! I mean it hurts me that dude did this to me! I call him my big brother and everything! Like I said, he is always looking out for me and everything!Yes I should not have brought up my ex in the conversation but damn! He ain't have to go back and tell my dude! Now he is walking around here like he hasn't done anything wrong! You know part of me still wants to confront him and get it out in the open but I have been strongly advised to keep my mouth shut, let it go, kill him with kindness and let his conscience eat away at him. Damn, it feels weird to have a dude hating on me and I am a woman!Pat - Elaborate on your comment. I have never had this happen to me!
Patrick Covington at 10:22am July 13
@Cynthia at times we have to watch who we call our friends because everyone is not on your side they on your back riding and looking for a chance to tear you apart. You have to be careful in life..
Cynthia Perkins at 10:24am July 13
Well I am definitely going to do just that Pat. Mofos want to see you fly off the handle!
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:44am July 13
Why would a man be with a woman for 8 years, she gives him a little girl and then a year and half goes by, and he marries his mistress of 4 years? While he was living with the girl that gave him his first daughter.
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:45am July 13
He didn't marry her while they were living together but he married the mistress is my point!
Patrick Covington at 10:47am July 13
@Deneka he kept her locked down and knew he had that and was making plans on the other end all the time. When a man knows he got it he can move around.. Have you ever caught him cheating or doing wrong in the 4yrs they were dating?
Deneka L. Lewis at 10:52am July 13
I knew he was doing cuz he told me everything. I met the mistress on several occasions. I always thought it was kind of dirty because he didn't tell his girlfriend the truth from the get go. And now she is all messed up. I feel pretty bad for her.
Patrick Covington at 11:00am July 13
Well if she saw signs it was then her job to walk away.. But we at times hope a person will change for the better and at times it gets worse.
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