This blog is going to touch on a few things that are going to make you think. First thing I would like to discuss is Love. Let’s define it first 1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties
I have been doing a little studying and found a lot of people are dating people and really don’t know why the hell they are with them! I found a lot of people dating because they don’t want to be lonely and some just Fuc- - - - and calling it love just to get what they want. I found more women screwing multiple dudes just to get into a club to get their rent paid, buy new clothing etc. I was like damn some of the stories I have heard are truly amazing.
Why is it that women feel like the only way they can get something or make something of themselves is opening their legs? I just can’t put my finger on it, does your brain count for anything? A lot of people go around and claim and sleep with guys for status just to say I am with someone. It is like a celebrity coming into town and you go to his room. You know he is not coming to Memphis every other weekend to see you and he is not going to make you his main chick hell he can get ass in any city he stops. So why would you allow your body to be abused just to say you have been with someone.
Oh and the fellas you are just as worse messing with them and spoiling them and making them fat and lazy. You know the worst part and I am going on, you not even wearing a condom! Enough Said!
NEXT: Love once again whew had to get that out.
Why do we date? Why Do We Love? Why Do We Put Up With Shit?
Answer these questions. I recently had a discussion with a friend and we spoke about a lot of things. One thing that caught me the most is why we as men have a good woman that will do anything for us meaning cook, clean, sex us up however we want it and bathe us. And our stupid assess mess it up for a dumb ass chick that don’t have nothing but ass. Dumb ass gives you more drama than a little bit always begging and looking for reasons to bitch. When we got a woman at home that will love your shit stains (If You All Have Them You Keyword), but we choose the foolishness, I don’t get it. Women I am going to let you in on something and you can agree or disagree. I think most men do things like this because sometimes we are insecure with ourselves or we feel that this is too good to be true and can’t afford to be hurt so we look for comfort on all levels. This mean good and bad on all levels. I am not going to speak about anyone because I don’t know BUT A LOT OF PEOPLE DON’T KNOW HOW TO LOVE. One might never been loved to experience love so they don’t know how to love. They have been hoes all their lives so running into a Queen is something that can’t be handled.
But what puzzles me more is why you women stay and put up with the shit? Is it that you are going to change them and make them love you, give them thirty chances until you figure out he don’t love you, or you get pregnant and then blame him when you know you should have left and you knew he was screwing everyone and you did not use protection.
We as people have really lost our connection with love because of our past and the events that took place in our lives that have scorned us. We have not let go of the past but we keep bringing people in our present when we have not learned who we are and what we want first.
I just think that if someone man or woman is not treating you the best and you feel something is lacking talk about it first and if talk doesn’t work give yourself options stay and deal with the shit or leave. There are a lot of people out here looking for love and if one is not providing it stand still and let something new blow in. Don’t fuc- everyone you meet there is no love behind lust. Learn the mind then the body this is something a lot of us are still trying to figure out.
There will be a part two I have lots more to say but hell some of you will not get past the first sentence because you don’t think it affects you. But it is cool we will see you hanging off a bridge wondering what happened.
The next blog will give tips on keeping yours near. I don’t have all the answers because my shit is messed up but trust me I have learned a lot over the years and want to share. I also am going to complete the love topic because there is much more. Cheating, screwing, abuse, Married people etc.. I have a lot more.
If you have a comment and don’t want people to see your profile I will post it in the next blog without your name and profile info.. I know some people have really been hurt and need this. Just remember we are all Gods and Goddesses and should be treated like one accept nothing less than the best for you in your life.
KEEP THE BLOGS MOVING PASS THIS INFORMATION TO EVERYONE. We send out jokes and other shit but we never send things that affect our lives.
Thanks and may God bless everyone that reads this blog to be a better person inside and out. Much love!
Patrick C
2 comments:
What's up Pat!I read every word and I agree with every word!Thank you for sharing such knowledge, especially among my generation and the community I was born into!History has played a major role in the conditioning of our minds and hearts and I feel it's past time to start back thinking for ourselves and reclaim the knowledge and power that is naturally within us all as gods and goddesses and cease the fucked up control that our environment so readily would have us to continue without thinking outside the box!Shit obviously is not working out the way it's going, when do we stand up and face what we know to be right for us, our family ,our communities, and shit our very own well-being!But I would like to encourage everyone to stop being lead by ignorance and think for yourself and make the neccessary adjustments!Stop being afraid to be different!That is your gift,not to conform to your surroundings no matter how fucked up thay are!Cut the ties of ignorance asap please!And stop thinking that what you do doesn't affect the next person!We are here together for a reason!Think about it!
Hello Big C,
I always enjoy reading from a man who's experienced more than others.I get tired of the so called knowledge from these little imitations of a man here in Memphis. Keep up the good work with everything and yes, finally I've stopped getting into the same situations.I constantly have big things going on just not here in tired old Memphis.
Peace and Love,
Tephane
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