WHY WE PUT OURSELVES IN SITUTATIONS PART 2

WHY WE PUT OURSELVES IN SITUATIONS PART 2

Once again I am back with part 2. First let me thank everyone that sent emails and commented on the blog over 200 views to the page in a week.

I thought about what to say and how to say it for a week now. I didn’t want people to think that I was trying to mess anyone’s so call game up or give advice. I am just keeping things real and that is the only way I can be. I stated last week that I was going to give tips on keeping yours near and also talking about the other things (Hint Read The Blog).

Here are a couple of rules that you need to keep in your mind.

1. You have to be friends before you can become lovers.
A. You can’t date a stranger you must know a person’s good and bad and their limits to ensure you will not piss them off too much. It will still happen but you will at least know some limits.

B. Learn the person, if they are a “Hoe” while you are friends don’t expect that to change once they start dating you. Some things are in people’s blood and hard to get rid of.

C. Never cross the line of dating a friend until you have talked about all the pitfalls of it because once you do it, it is hard to go back and be true friends especially when there was sex involved. Ass makes most people crazy.

2. Never,Never mess with a married man or woman.
A. You can get your ass killed like that.

B. Too much for the person to lose, trust me, they are not going to leave them for you if they do, trust they are going to cheat on you also.

C. If your crazy ass is going to mess off, which I know you are, protect yourself don’t take something nasty back home to your husband or wife. Don’t get pregnant and then take the person through hell, use your mind.

3. If you feel that you are losing yours.
A. Try something new maybe a little gift. Wash them up tonight let them relax; make love to their minds and not their body.

B. Try listening to them more often pay attention to what they need and put yourself on the backend. (Most people only focus on themselves and not the partner).

C. Try being there without sex. If a person is not happy with your conversation, and the little things you do for them it could be a sexual relationship only.
Talk about expectations what do they want from you, are you everything to them.

4. Do you feel they are cheating? (I am not going to talk too much on this)
A. Don’t assume anything find out.

B. Catch their ass, once caught, either they are going to lie which most people do or they are going to tell the truth. You decide if you believe it or not.

C. Are they spending less and less time with you? Are they not calling as often? Have they stop doing the little things? If your sex life was very active has it cut down a lot?

D.Have you noticed little things that are not the same: panties in his clothing, bed got little stains and you know your ass has not been there, more dishes in the sink than normal, more soap being used and he is always tired or can’t do you when you want to or how he used to. HMMMMMM Think about it not saying they are but watch.

E. Men we have things to look at I do not hate. I know this is going to sound nasty but you better look. Check your girl’s panties in the dirty clothing look for blood and cum stains if sex was rough, it will show. Most women will still be releasing far after sex. Women are slick with theirs and hardly ever get caught. But notice one thing if you have sex often know your girls fit meaning her temple if you know it and once you get in and fall almost through it think twice and keep watch. Either you are getting smaller or she getting something bigger you decide. Most women txt and not talk or they use their emails at work. So men it is much harder but trust me keep your eyes open.

5. Last always protect yourself. (If you are going to have sex, which I know you are).
A. Inspect the goods Men and Women look over the body.

B. Women make sure he is wearing a condom NO EXCEPTIONS!
Women if you are going to put it in your mouth look at it shit turn the light on. Bumps, warts, discharge and nasty DON’T DO IT.

C. Men if you are going to go down and you smell something dead STOP, see a thick white discharge STOP, if bumps are around the lips STOP, if green pus and I have heard it happen STOP AND RUN!

E. Just be safe at all cost men you should not want to stick everything without a condom and women you should think before you let it happen if you get knocked up and worse catch AIDS or spread AIDS. What are you going to do with your life? There is far too much risk out here when it only takes a sec to be safe.

I am going to end this blog on this note I have plenty more to say and will I am getting ready to have a live open forum where women can ask questions and men can also. I know most people are afraid but would like to know “why”. I will keep everyone informed about dates. Let me make note I do not hate on anyone, you do what you do how you do it but one day you will get caught up.

Thanks and may God bless everyone that reads this blog to be a better person inside and out. Much love!

Patrick C