Thursday, November 30, 2006

LIFE

Once again I want to thank everyone for showing me love and I’m glad I can help so many people out.

The blog today is another that you can add to the collection and trust me it will not be too long.

Life!

This week has been a rough one for me. I lost a co-worker to a violent death. I had to stop and ask myself, what is life really about? Is it about gaining worldly possession that have no value once you’ve passed? Or is it about building something that can last a lifetime? I question us as people, our motives for living, are we really achieving things in life or are we settling for what we can get? Are we lowering our standards? Do we value our own life? Have we lost hope in ourselves and in others? Or do we stand for something? Do we love because we are afraid to be lonely, so we settle for anything? Or do we love ourselves and can stand to be alone to rebuild our character to be the best we can be for the other person?

The question remains what are you? Are you a leader in life or a follower? Will you stand for something or will you fall for anything? Have you lost your self- love and allow another person to treat you less than what you’re worth? Or will you demand that you be treated like GOD has made you, WONDERFUL!? We settle for people that will harm us mentally and physically but we always blame the other person. Now is the time to assume responsibility and lay the blame on ourselves. Get out, learn to be one with yourself, love yourself and learn how to be your own best friend. Only then can you truly find someone that will love you for you.
Women, stop looking for someone that can take care of you, when you’re able to take care of yourself. Men, stop looking for a woman that you can manipulate. Find someone that is on or past your level that can be a blessing to your soul! WE NEED TO BE PUSHED TO ACHIEVE GREATNESS!

People stop looking for quick money it comes with a price tag that some can’t pay. Crime is on the rise and people are killing and robbing each other left and right. But have you noticed it is a majority of the blacks that are doing it. Why do we continue to take from a race that has been struggling for over 400 years? Even in Africa they are killing each other. Over 3 million people are displaced and are being raped and killed. Any Black Person that is killing another black and not for self-preservation then you are considered to be a racist and part of the Klan. When Hispanics became the minority over blacks that should have been an eye opener that the race is diminishing. More blacks are in jails, in graves and in hell.

I am finished because I promised this would not be long but if we don’t come together as people and stop hurting each other and keeping each other down there will come a day where we will lose everything we have ever gained. I heard someone say once before, “can’t nobody take nothing from me.” I guess the Jews said the same thing with the Nazis, Iraqis said the same thing about the insurgents and Black People said the same thing about slavery. The only people that have not gotten anything back are black!

Learn who you are and build off what you are if you are leader help the followers; teach them how to lead so we all can be a great people that can accomplish something with our lives. I promise we will all be able to chat online in my forum that is coming soon. The Discussion Room! It will be real talk for real people but I need everyone’s support on these blogs. Please repost and show love. I have a special Woman vs Man blog coming next week.

Patrick C

5 comments:

$$DEE DEE$$ said...

That some real talk! Keep it up with the blogs! I like reading them cause you are keepin it real like you said!

LatinaDiana said...

way to go, Pat C... I'm really impressed with your enthusiasm for making the world a better place. It's nice to know you and I are not the only ones ready to make living a loving and nurturing experience. I can't wait for The Discussion Room. GOD, life is so short. so. incredibly. short.

Unknown said...

You are right. Life is very very short. I think people need to thank God for the small things (being able to wake up every morning, being able to see, hear, feel, etc..) To many times we complaint o God instead of thanking him. I'm sorry for what happened to your co-worker. Try not to be sad but thank God for having your co-worker in your life. Take Care and God Bless.

Jameka Shamae said...

Great words. Gives us all something to think about.

FOXX"C" said...

Just read the blog and this is REAL TALK no one could have siad it better than you keep up the good work and spreading the word that people need to hear!