Self Esteem

Today is a new day with a new situation that presents itself. I want to talk about self-esteem most people don’t know the definition: 1. A realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect. I want to talk about why we lack the respect for ourselves. Some people who date and might experience hardships in the relationship, being called stupid, ugly and other names they tend to have low self-esteem. If a man or woman disrespects you on a constant basis it is time for you to find new avenues to venture. I believe there is no need to stick around and take verbal abuse from someone that claims to love you. You need to understand a man or woman is only as good as their mate. So if you are stupid and dumb what does that make the other party? Think about it they are dating you so that makes them stupid and dumb for being with you and they must have a complex problem. If they could do better why have they not left why are they holding on to you. Because they know they can’t find anyone better than you and if they do they will be running back to your door soon.

Low self-esteem causes a lot of problems in our lives. It can create anxiety, stress, loneliness and increase likelihood for depression. If you decide to breakup with someone or if they leave you, take time to think about what happened and why it happened. DON’T TRY TO GET EVEN. That only hurts you more. Take the time to heal and realize that you are a beautiful person inside and out. Never let anyone tell you that you are less than your worth. I think it is better that you leave before you end up hurting yourself seriously.