Truth vs Lie

What up family I am back for a quick second shooting you something new and interesting. First, let me thank everyone for their support this month I have received mad love. This blog today is titled Truth vs Lie. This is something to think about and share with everyone.

Doing a little research on a couple of new things these past couple of weeks and would like to share it. Why is it that we lie to each other about simple things that can affect a relationship for a lifetime? A lie can damage the mental and physical relationship of the persons involved. The question is why do we lie? Is it to protect yourself, the other party, games, or just afraid of the outcome? I guess it is a combination of all things to protect you from being left in a relationship or being looked at in a bad way. Or are you trying to protect the other person thinking you are saving them from hurt and pain? Are you just playing games to see how far you can carry the lie?

People tell lies to cover the truth about a minor or serious situation. Most men and women that cheat, tell lies to protect their current relationship status being things are moving well or bad. I feel if you cheat and can tell the other party that you are dating/dealing with someone else and you give them options to decide if they want to stay or leave, why not give that to the person that you are hiding the truth from. Give them an option to decide if they want to stay or leave. If you give the other party that much respect you should be able to give the one you have been dealing with the same. Leave a person an option to do what they need to do. Most relationships fail because of the trust issue not because you are not loving the person right or giving them what they need. Most people can feel when the other party is lying. When bonded with another person your souls feel certain things. Family, a lie is a lie no matter how big or small. It can cripple everything you work for.

Telling the truth can change a lot of the outcomes. Most people can get over certain things a lot faster with the truth. Truth shows bravery, loyalty and respect for the other party. It can open up new doors you thought were never going to be open and it gives you a sense of freedom. I know 7 out of 10 people cheat on their spouse or have some type of relationship with the opposite sex or the same. You wonder why your life is shitty and things always seem to happen to you, it is because you are creating bad Karma. Be honest, take the time to just to clear your mind and heart of all the lies you have created and will potentially create. The first thing is to stop doing wrong, telling the truth without changing the situation only causes more lies. Come clean about your wrongdoing regardless of how bad it will hurt or even if the person leaves you. You will have a clean soul and you can rebuild within yourself. Most importantly you give the other party an option to rebuild with you or leave it alone.

Last a lie can destroy a business relationship! Most of us put our trust in other people when it comes to our careers and moving ahead in life. If a person leads you in the wrong direction or misinform you, it can be a disastrous end. You put more faith in these people because of their experience and understanding of business. Being whatever your profession is, you should always have a clear understanding with others about business that concerns both parties. Loyalty is the key to all this and will hold together a personal relationship. Everyone tells a lie every once in a while but be big enough to tell the truth once it hits the fan and you are confronted with it. I need to end this blog because there is so much more to talk about on this matter. Being honest is hard to do and I understand. The key to doing it is not to get tangled up in the lie the first place. It can damage your relationships, marriages and life. You just don’t know how the other party will proceed until you are honest. Keep that in mind and also remember one lie constitutes another lie and the cycle begins.

Ladies and Gentlemen don’t accept a lie being you love a person or trying to work something out. It only leads to more problems and trust me the issue will worsen in time.
Everyone needs to learn how to talk and discuss issues without fighting and cursing. Be open and even though you are hurt thank the other party for being honest and now you need to decide what you want to do with it.

I hope this reaches someone and open a couple of doors in your life. Pass this information to someone else. We, as a people, need to spread truth and stop spreading lies and material that only causes more drama in our lives. Let’s clean up for the remainder of this year and start 2009 with being honest with yourself and others.