Mental/Verbal Abuse

On my questions of the day, do you think mental/verbal abuse is worse than physical abuse? What are you thoughts on this.. Make sure to check out other questions also..


Shonda Sargent at 10:56am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
That's a good question Pat in my case the verbal and emotional was the worst. My scars and bruises healed but the words and thoughts he said an gave I still hear at times and they still hurt


Kiana Parker-Lee at 10:56am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
i think mental abuse is equally bad as physical abuse bc mental abuse is long term. physical abuse can leave u mentally affected as well. my advice. watch a few tyler perry movies! happy thursday! good question.


GoddessChee Msdoing Myownthang at 10:58am May 21
physical abuse will heal...mental and verbal can cause a person to drastically change their whole life around and way of thinking...it mental and verbal have a long term affect on people...physical abuse will heal...


Brandy Greene at 11:10am May 21
I think mental, verbal, and physical abuse is all about the same, it can do alot to hurt your character and it does have a long term effect on people, if you are beat up and yelled at to believe u are nothing, you are more than likely to evolve into thinking that you are nothing, its a cycle.....


Shunteria Swift at 11:11am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Actionz speak louder than wordz in some cases, in abusive situation I agree whole hearted that verbal abuse can do more damage sometimez...


Yolanda Dupree-Ingram at 11:12am May 21
yes


Britney QueenofRok Powers at 11:14am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
speakn erxperiance. five yrs with my ex. the sex against my will, the taste of blod in my mouth, the black eyes, broken bones all of the physical abuse hurted like hell. that started the emotional abuse. the verbal abuse only worsened it. the real hurt wasthe abuse i did to myself by letting him do this for years. i mean tru i cant jus blame me but i lethim do it. physical abuse causes emotional abuse, that causes mental abuse. the verbal hurt as bad but nutthn was worse than passionate abuse. that abuse that comes and goes....she loves him to death but hez this monster that loves her by mouth but wont stop hittn her. domestic violence is hard and it all hurts....im jus glad to be alive. (sorry i got all of subject i just needed to vent!)


Shonda Sargent at 11:17am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
That's okay Britney I understand for real


Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:20am May 21
OMG that's real deep.....XOXO


Patrick Covington at 11:23am May 21
You are fine dear! Because ppl need to know there is a way out! Either you leave or you put a muthafucka in the ground if they put their hands on you.. There is no reason to hit anyone when you can walk away..


Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:28am May 21
I can totally comment and relate on this due to the fact that I have been through it before..I actually loved this person almost more than I loved myself...But I mean to me none of them out weigh the other....B/c I'll never forget the 1st time he hit or the 10th or the harsh words that he said to me that we couldn't take back even though he said he was sorry ....I had to let go and realize that I did love myself to much to let this and allow that to happen to me....I deserved better...It's like I forgot who I was....I'm thankful to be alive and that is one secret that I have kept inside a long time.......(A deep Breath)XOXO


Patrick Covington at 11:31am May 21
I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL PPL NEED TO LET THIS OUT SO THEY CAN CLOSE THOSE CHAPTERS IN THEIR LIVES.. YOU ARE STRONGER NOW! YOU HAVE MORE POWER AND NOW YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WILL AND WILL NOT ALLOW!


Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:33am May 21
WOW, Pat you really are getting alot of responses and people are letting it out b/c as women we have so much held in....I'm tearing up.....XOXO


Kerstin Taylor at 11:35am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
i think all abuse is terrible & shares the equal amount of pain. From me & my boys being poison, from me getting choked, from him kicking me out in negative degree weather w/o clothes, from him calling me a bitch, a whore, slut, a no good mother...all of it hurt the same.ppl look at the life time movies & say "she so stupid 2 stay w/ him...i won't do it" it's not that easy. men threathen the women and say "if u leave me i will kill u" some stay b/c they wanna live but if the stay they might not live....


Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:36am May 21
You are so right......XOXO


Patrick Covington at 11:37am May 21
It is ok because to let it out! Because you gain your power back when you let that old out and work on your new things..


Jade Fox at 11:38am May 21
Mental is worse because someone could mentally abuse you so badly until it causes you to commit suicide, I nevr heard of someone commiting suicide because their lover beat the shit out of them. Either is WRONG, I will never allow anyone to abuse me and I will try not to be abusive myself


Brooke Mullenix at 11:44am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
its all bad and it all scars ur brain, its bad when u can relive every moment of it step by step,from a deadbeat-step dad to a boyfriend. people should really think b4 they act because it doesnt just go away overnight regardless if its mental or physical abuse. every situation is different and when u see a person getting help,going through counseling and actually changing for the better it can sometimes make u feel better about that person


Carmen Renee at 11:48am May 21
Abuse is abuse no matter what shapr or form it comes in..


Jason PhotosbyJaye Porter at 11:48am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
Verbal and mental is worst. Cause it will have you looking and examining your flaws deeply. You sleep and dream of it. You look at yourself hard in the mirror. You began to think i see what they mean i am not as cute as i make myself out to be. Maybe i do need to accept that i'm fat. That one's personal. Heard that from my wife of all people. No encouragement.


Shonda Sargent at 11:49am May 21 via Facebook Mobile
OMG that is so true. I use to be one of those people even when a friend would tell me her dude was hitting her or whatever I would tell her just leave you don't have to stay and in my head I was calling her stupid because she wouldn't leave him. But when it happened to me I didn't take my own advice. I have a daughter an I had to end it because I didn't want her to think it was okay to be treated that way and my son to think its okay for him to use his hands or words to control a women


Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:50am May 21
When a person abuses someone else I don't think they know the dangers that may face or put themselves in especially if you don't what that person has been through in life b/c you never know what's on thier mind....xoxo


Patrick Covington at 11:52am May 21
YOU ALL HAVE A STORY THAT CAN HELP THE NEXT PERSON THAT IS DEALING WITH THIS NOW.. YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO THE MOVEMENT TO BUILD OUR QUEENS BACK UP!


Brittany DaDiva Johnson at 11:53am May 21
YES INDEED XOXO